Embodied Learning & The Training Ground

Embodied Learning & The Training Ground

Neuroscience has come along way since the modern-day schooling system was established. The idea of sitting still in a classroom and being fed information poses excellently-bad challenges and limitations to the human mind and body. 

And if you are like me, you may remember microscopic amounts of many subjects that you learned in your school chair, sitting still and straight…. wait no, more like still & slouching. 

It’s common knowledge amongst most, but definitely, the academic and scientific community that the brain and body are not separate functioning systems. “In fact, neuroscientific studies have demonstrated that processing of objects, spatial information, music, faces, flavours, odours, and also mere thinking of these concepts evokes sensorimotor responses, i.e., body-related activity in the brain (Pulvermuller, 1999, 2001; Pulvermüller, 2005)” as states Manuela Macedonia in her article ‘Embodied Learning: Why at School the Mind Needs the Body.’

For this reason, Luminous Youth takes this modern-day wisdom and applies it to our classes and workshops. We share meaningful subjects about life and provide an engaging movement filled class whereby the kids learn not only through listening but playing, moving, creating, crafting and embodying the information they receive. We inspire the mind and the body to move through the information we share so that it is integrated into the functioning system of the participants. 

The Training Ground

By doing so, we provide the training ground for when real-life situations arise. For as we journey in life, it is much easier to replicate actions our body knows and has experienced before right? 

We can consider a martial artist for an example. To produce the incredible feats of their mind and body at times of crisis they practice their craft over and over again. They exhibit a calm mind, swift responses and intense focus. They embody their practice through repetition and more repetition still.

Well, we can replicate this wisdom of embodied learning with the skills of life. Skills that combat nerves or panic. Skills that create methods for staying true to one’s heart. Or skills that support not getting dragged into group-think or group-action, which is adolescent years may be monumental. 

Through our embodied learning approach, we can share wisdom to the mind and the body together. We can ensure the kids who come to our classes leave with the best possible opportunity to grow and learn with an embodied understanding of the lesson presented. 

We can ensure that this life skill has its maximum impact, and is more than a set of strung together words. It’s lived, it’s practised, it’s woven into their inner tapestry.

Success Redefined

For our little people with such a rapidly changing world, the concept of success is changing equally as fast. For us at Luminous Youth we aim to foster success in all the kids we share to. But we define success differently to perhaps the societal norm.

Success for us is about living authentically and connected to our spirit. Success is journeying through life, riding the ups and down gracefully, being in awe at the triumphs and the tribulations, and always being able to find our inner compass to light the right direction. 

The Inner Compass

Our inner compass will guide us in the right direction no matter what the circumstance or what logic may reveal. Because frankly, sometimes logic is simply not correct. 

We provide tools, tactics and the training ground for our little people to practice the hurdles and obstacles that life throws at them. A training ground to embody the skills of life that are not the path of the intellectual. Not the way of thinking, but instead the way of ‘being’ with what is and knowing how to act. Not how to react.

By our standards, we are providing not only a successful new model of learning but necessary life skills that support the development of grounded, skilled, and thriving adults (om come!) in a rapidly changing and unknown future. 


Not Shying Away from Questions about Spirit

Not Shying Away from Questions about Spirit

There are eye-widening questions we may get asked in our lives. “What is the universe” or “Who made the world?” for example. They are hard enough to answer when someone who’s studied the topics is asked let alone when our child does pose such heavily weighted enquiry.

And perhaps the questioner, sometimes 6 years old for example, has limited understandings about the planet, let alone the universe, or the many many belief systems that consume the minds and hearts of so many. 

And of course, it makes sense for us to not know how to respond. 

Institutionalised “spirituality” loses its place

Since the 1960s (in the western world) the social cohesion brought together by institutionalised religion has been on the constant decline. So many of us 30 & 40-somethings didn’t really have the ‘spirit element’ concentrated on in our everyday community life. It just didn’t hold its place in society as it did in earlier centuries. 

Maybe this was the ticking over into the age of Aquarius. Or maybe the rise of other social groups begun to feed that need for ‘community’. There is probably as many reasons as there are worms in the beautiful sweet-smelling soil of our earth. 

But back to the questions, we may get asked!! 

Not knowing the answers

Fact is we probably don’t know the answers. There are many many thoughts, concepts, ideas and belief systems which tell a story and consume the thoughts (and meditations!) of many. 

Generally, us humans are either on the endless journey of discovery about the nature of humanity and the universe or have decided to stop searching and just accept a given story. 

Maybe parenthood, work, gardening, dancing or thumb-twiddling has taken the priority for now and maybe the search will start again in the future……or maybe not. I guess that’s the luck of free-choice right?

So when we don’t know the answer to a question relating to the spiritual world that our child asks about what do we do!?

It depends on what our intention is.

The questions we need to ask ourself is – Is the spirit of my child important? Does it deserve my focus and attention when a question of that nature is asked? Do I want to nourish that side of my child so they know themselves beyond the physical world?

If your answer is no, then this article is not for you. If your answer is yes, then this article is for you. 

Authenticity builds the relationship

So when we don’t know the answer, that is 100% perfect. Because I’m not sure any of us really know the answer. And what better than true authenticity to build strong, trusting and loving relationships right?

So research tells us what is essential is to take this question and give it the attention, focus and time it deserves.  It is essential to stop doing the dishes or the cleaning, turn off the computer or social media page and look into the eyes of your child and perhaps tell them something like “that is a really great and important question.” It confirms importance, and decades of research tell us that is imperative to keep that part of the child in a place of importance. 

We may be lucky and find that is actually all they were after and they may scamper off again knowing that that question that just arose from the depths of their being is one worth spending lots more time and they will continue to revisit it. 

Or they may want more from us. Being honest with something like “I’d really like to know about that too” is great, or will actually in time to come even be wonder-full!

Go on the journey together

If they do want more from us, it is the perfect doorway that we can then walk through with them to begin exploration of the world of spirit together. 

We may choose one faith to research, or the many faiths, we may choose the spirits of the earth or the angels of the other words. We may explore how plants communicate or play music and respond to stimulus and go from there.  The options are endless.

We can probably find things that totally resonate with our little one pending on their age and interests and this serves the most wonderful purpose of highlighting that their spiritual life is important and worth putting energy into.

And every time we do it, it nourishes their spirit. The impacts of that for lifelong thriving and health are immense. So immense! If you don’t know the work of Dr Lisa Miller over the past 30 years you need to get onto it. It’s the must-know for any parent of the modern world.

So to recap we don’t need answers but we do need to make time to go on the journey with them. And no doubt exploring such a mysterious and wonderful world of spirit will never cease to inspire, intrigue and create wonder-filled moments together. 

Parenting is so much more enjoyable and easier when there is a strong connection right? Well, what better way to connect than connecting over your wondrous and almighty spirits. 

What is your lingo and how does it honour their connection?

What is your lingo and how does it honour their connection?

Language, one of the most complex things on our planet. A few words structured in one way opposed to the same words structured in another can create opposite outcomes. No doubt every human has been there trying to get a message across and getting greeted with a completely baffling response right?

When raising children the words we use literally shape their brain and their understanding of the world. Every human goes through the phase of intense enquiry blurting out the words ‘What is this?” over and over again. We as parents have an endless choice about how to respond right? Not only our responses though.

Our everyday language enters their ears and brains and has an immense impact.

Science tells us everyday language pivotal to lifelong thriving

One finding that is strongly highlighted in Dr Lisa Millers 30 years of scientific research into children’s spirituality and education is how the use of language that nourishes the spirit and thereby places a level of importance on acts of spirit in our daily life is pivotal to lifelong thriving.

If we can use this language in our every day our child grows knowing ‘spirit’ as a recognisable and powerful agent for their actions in the world. It is a part of self and part of something great, and the feeling and experience has a recognisable and everyday name attached to it. You with me?

During the early years when our brain is in Delta waves (approx 0-2yrs) and Theta waves (approx 2-6 yrs) we are in a super learning state and extremely connected to our internal worlds. To honour and nourish that internal world and place importance on it has profound impacts for our understanding of self, how we stay connected throughout our life and the world in which we share. 

One really interesting part of this science is the research that states it doesn’t matter what we call that part of self or the ‘higher power’ of our existence – god, mother earth, nature, great spirit, the universe, buddha etc, or whether it’s just the animals and plants. But what is important is that it is referred to in everyday language. It’s about a relationship with something unseen or in modern science its called the ‘transcendent relationship’. 

That is what is important to keep. Because whether you remember or not we all had it as children. Loud, clear and strong – perhaps you are lucky enough to still have it now or get glimpses at least!

So this language puts an awareness about that ‘energy’ into their every day so when our little people experience acts or feelings with that energy behind them they know where to place it.

What’s your language and how does it honour their connection?

So how can you use language in your every day that nourishes and places the spiritual world as an element of significant importance for your luminous little offspring? 

Perhaps establishing a language to go with our own spiritual life is a good place to start. And remember you don’t need answers, but it does help if you are your partner / wife / husband / family have a common language that can be referred to and used throughout the family.

Dr Lisa Miller highlights some beautiful words to use that can become part of your child’s spiritual vocabulary through your own use. These are “field of love, direct knowing, heart knowing, head knowing, inner compass, spiritual compass, culture of love versus culture of judgement, feeling part of the oneness, synchronicity, sanctity, connection with spirit.”

These words may work for you but if not create your own. The important part is the language you use educates your child on their own inner life giving them a way to find meaning literally and symbolically through language. This gives them the life long skill of being able to qualify those experiences that are from a part of ourselves that existed long before this physical body we find ourselves in now. And that is something to celebrate and keep at the forefront of this earthly journey. So what’s your lingo?


‘The Invisible Me’ – Pilot Program for 9+ Year Olds Happening in 2020

‘The Invisible Me’ – Pilot Program for 9+ Year Olds Happening in 2020

Luminous Youth had a wondrous journey in 2019. Some parts were glorious, some parts were challenging. The glorious for example was seeing little faces light up as they learnt messages about their power or the wow-ness when they actually saw the light of their own heart.  

Some of the challenging, on the other hand, for example, was trying to deliver workshops to children aged 6 – 12-year-olds without the older kids at times getting frustrated with the little younger wildlings boisterousness! Oh the adventure it was!

So, we’ve listened to you dear community and are really excited to offer the 9+ children – the Fire Dragons- their very own space for a pilot program filled with games, laughter and creativity about their Invisible Self.

These sessions are focused on providing our children with an opportunity to explore the non-physical realms of humanity and themselves through games, play and creativity. 

It may be their thoughts, or their dreams, their values or their habits. It may be the astral world or the elementals, the universal mind or the ego. Whatever it is each week, it places importance on their self-awareness and fans the fire within their heart. But in case you want to know what is happening each week, it will go on our Facebook Group page prior to the actual session – so make sure you are connected with us there with notifications turned on.

With adolescences just around the corner, ‘The Invisible Me’ sessions deliver a fun, safe, non-denominational space to explore their spirit and thus places importance on this aspect of themselves. It delivers thought and feeling provoking exercises that encourage inner searching but not in a boring or overly serious way – but instead in a playful, joyful, light-hearted way. 

Why is this important you may ask? So that when adolescents does hit and the hormonal surge forces new searching to take place, these luminous little humans have the tools, awareness and ability to search inwards to explore themselves. A necessity to have at the forefront of the mind & heart when the dominant culture presents another alternative way to search during adolescent years. 

Sound interesting? We hope so, and we hope to inspire your child to understand their true power and the sheer magnificence of themselves. After all, we all were simply just stardust once right? But look at us now! 

Want to know more? Well join our Luminous Youth Facebook Group page and our newsletter and you won’t miss a beat. We’ll be talking more about our games, our topics and the impact of

’12 Senses Play’ for 6 – 8 yr olds comes to Mullumbimby in 2020

’12 Senses Play’ for 6 – 8 yr olds comes to Mullumbimby in 2020

Luminous Youth had such a wonderful adventure sharing the ‘Magic of Trees’ workshop in 2019 and the hands-down favourite and most powerful part of the program was watching the kids play games that gave them an awareness and sense of their abilities and senses beyond the 5 everyday senses. So what better way to keep this celebration alive than introduce ‘12 Senses Play’ as a weekly activity for the Fire Flys of our community – the 6 – 8-year-olds.

‘12 Senses Play’ is all about fun, experimentation, collaboration, working together and discovering our ability to harness the power of presence and focus to do things that we sometimes forget are part of our natural human abilities. 

Leading your blindfolded partner through a man-made maze, sensing previously-trodden paths through touch only, or feeling vibratory feelings within the body, each week brings multiple games to explore and experiment. 

Designed to be fun, challenging, team-focused and exploratory these games celebrate the human beyond the physical realm and spirit nourishing practices are woven into these games.

These games are for everybody and do not require a pre-determined skill-set or physical ability. They are for all 6 – 8-year-old humans who want to have a good time with games that are quirky, unique, fun, sometimes challenging and all about giving it a go.

Sound interesting? Sound new!? Well, some of it is, but lots of these games are trialled and tested for their fun factor and pass with flying colours. But just in case you need some support to come along, your child’s first session is free! From then on, you can just drop in or save with a 5 class or term passes. 

Want to know more? Well join our Luminous Youth Facebook Group page and our newsletter and you won’t miss a beat or ENROL NOW!  We’ll be talking more about our games, the 12 senses and the impact of working on them and a bunch of other juicy heart-centred stuff that nourishes our spirit, but in this case the alive, bright and bubbling spirit of our little folk. 

‘Adventure Moves’ for 4 & 5 yr olds comes to Mullumbimby in 2020

‘Adventure Moves’ for 4 & 5 yr olds comes to Mullumbimby in 2020

Luminous Youth brings ‘Adventure Moves’ to Mullumbimby in an innovative new program that nourishes the spirit within you and your child. Designed for 4 & 5-year-olds – our ‘Glow Worms’, with parent involvement essential, this dynamic movement, sound, song and simple craft-based hour delivers a playful, fun and laughter-filled adventure into wondrous imaginative worlds that nourish the spirit.

Through play we go on an imaginative adventure where we embody the story, live it out (hopefully laugh and giggle a lot) and learn! We may visit Mars by solar-power rocket to witness the outcomes of willpower or the land of the gnomes to experience the outcomes of patience and persistence. We may catch a bus (where the wheels go round and round of course!) inside our own heart to discover the learnings available in the dreamworld or swim (like the good bacteria found in probiotic-rich yoghurt!) deep into our own belly to explore how deep breaths calm our nerves and bring our brain back to a good decision making place.

There is so much to explore at our weekly ‘Adventure Moves’ 1 hour sessions and each week brings a wonderful short song that can be sung wherever one does please. Yep, we’ve got songs and they are good! Short, sweet, deep and pungent!

Facilitated by Paul Crebar, he brings his 20 years of coaching experience with children of all ages to the arena (grassy patches and fun little rooms in Mullumbimby can be arena’s right?). Combine this with love of yoga, circus, clowning, cheeky songwriting and his ability to express deep concepts through simple story, ‘Adventure Moves’ is the new way to keep kids connected to their spirit whilst having a jolly great time with you by their side. Yes, connection, nourishment and joy together – all in one bundle of Mullumbimby goodness.

Now we know this is new, and we know new can be scary (or exciting of course too!) and that’s why we are giving you the first session for free. So you and your little folk can experience ‘Adventure Moves’, get the vibe, understand what it’s about and go from there – we are pretty damn confident you’ll be back and we are excited about that! We’ve got lots to share!

You can also stay up-to-date with ‘Adventure Moves’ weekly forecast + we’ll be revealing why we choose play, laughter, song and movement to tell meaningful story at our Facebook Group Page and via our newsletter. We’ll also be blogging some super neat facts about the new science on parenting for health and lifelong thriving and other juicy things we’ve got stored in our growing research folders and overflowing bookshelves. Oh so much to come!

Join our Facebook group, sign up for our newsletter and come get your ‘Glow Worm’ on with us this February. For full details and to make a booking visit us here.

The future of learning….

The future of learning….

Although technology certainly creates its challenges its power in creating literate and globally connected kids who learn from each other may indeed have profound outcomes that humanity will benefit from.

“Kids are curious, and they are compassionate. To generate learning, nurture empathy. Kids willingly memorize the names of the countries in Africa, but they become keenly interested when they are providing malaria nets or helping to build wells that save lives of children who become their friends. This is no longer theoretical. Students can be collectively involved in studying math and simultaneously learn to become global citizens.”

A wonderful article by Howard Blumenthal, creator of Kids On Earth. 

Spirituality and Children by Dr Lisa Miller

Spirituality and Children by Dr Lisa Miller

Lisa Miller, Ph.D., is Professor of Psychology and Education, Director of the Clinical Psychology Program at Columbia University, Teachers College and is Founder of the Spirituality Mind Body Institute, the first Ivy League graduate program in spirituality and psychology. Dr. Miller is a foremost scientist on spirituality across the lifespan and her innovative research has focused on quantifiable effects of spirituality in health, resilience and thriving, and an overall sacred and joyful life. Her clinical and consultation work focuses on spiritual awareness and spiritual growth, for individuals, families, groups and organizations. In The Spiritual Child, Miller presents the next big idea in psychology: the science and the power of spirituality. She explains the clear, scientific link between spirituality and health and shows how invaluable spirituality is to a child’s mental and physical health. Thank you to WatkinsBooks for this beautiful interview.

Worthwhile book list to explore!

Worthwhile book list to explore!

The power of story has been celebrated since the dawn of humanity. One could argue that the modern day t.v. and media has sadly taken over storytelling. But, there is still amazing books being written that have powerful impacts on our children. Here’s a book list worth exploring! Click here


Heart Coherence & Why It’s Important

Heart Coherence & Why It’s Important

If you haven’t come across HeartMath yet, its time to delve into the modern science backing up the millennia old understandings of ancient cultures. Here HeartMath Institute Research Director discusses why heart coherence is essential in stress management and sustainable behavioural change. Enjoy!

Tree’s that talk

“A forest is much more than what you see,” says ecologist Suzanne Simard. Her 30 years of research in Canadian forests have led to an astounding discovery — trees talk, often and over vast distances. Learn more about the harmonious yet complicated social lives of trees and prepare to see the natural world with new eyes.

Quick Heart Coherence Technique – Try it!

Follow along with Deborah Rozman, Ph.D, co-author of Heart Intelligence, as she guides you through a 2-step process called the Quick Coherence Technique. This simple technique was developed by HeartMath. The HeartMath research team has demonstrated that our intuition is more accessible when we bring our heart, mind and emotions into a cooperative, balanced alignment. Science refers to this as heart coherence. Practice this HeartMath® technique to increase the communication with your heart’s intuitive intelligence and increase your inner-coherence. Learn more ways you can increase coherence in the new book, Heart Intelligence. The book provides numerous tools and techniques for accessing your intuitive inner guidance. Quick Coherence can be used to calm reactive emotions, reduce feelings of worry and fear, lessen feelings of overwhelm and stress, prepare for sleep and quiet an overactive mind.

Death by Fruit Dove, Love by Nature

Death by Fruit Dove, Love by Nature

Death introducing its self to our daughter in a beautiful heart felt way. 

A graceful  spirit in the form of a  fruit dove lay still and angelic. 

A gift of learning for our girl. 

A soft and gentle way of meeting with death. 

As her eyes are wide with wonder at the pretty colours this being has, she remarks quite matter of factly “Oh she’s left her body.”

We’ve decided to use that term, as for us it seems a more truthful description of what has occurred. 

She held the dove and looked closely at her claws letting them close around her little fingers and chatted feverishly about the amazing array of colours. 

She made her bed in a box and after awhile asked why all of the ants were coming?

I explained that Mother Earth had fed Dove with beautiful food her whole life and now it was time for her to feed mother earth with her body as she won’t be needing it now that she is returning to the worlds dream. To nourish the Earth and become part of the soil which feeds us all. 

She pondered that for a while  as  she fussed about. 

“Will we do that?” She said. 

“Yep” I answered with a smile and excitement in my eyes. 

I could see that was a big one. 

She left it there and asked if we could bury her later. 

“Sure” I replied. 

This lovely Dove was the centre of her play for the rest of the day. 

As I went about my day I kept seeing myself in my minds eye, spreading smoke medicine over our daughters body with this birds wings. 

This is something I once did a lot but haven’t felt drawn to for many years. 

So the next morning we had a simple little ceremony to tune in and thank the spirit of the bird for the gift and we created a beautiful medicine tool with her wings. 

Her first. 

The whole process was totally natural for her. Not once did she have anything but wonder and joy in her heart. 

And I know as her mother this is the unseen speaking directly to her. Beginning to teach her of all the aspects in the cycle of life. In the comings and goings of spirits. 

That our teachers coming in many different forms. 

In ways that she can embrace and understand. That are gentle and full of beauty. 

The subtle realms speak in whispers and potency. Humbleness and reverence always. 

This morning her papa and her took the body of this beautiful spirit down under the icecream bean tree that delights her with its gifts of sweetness and they returned her to the earth. She joyfully chose to sing Happy Birthday at the top of her lungs!! 

And then got on with her day. 

Her wings are drying in her play space beside her dolls house. 

And I sit here and ponder the beauty in that. Creation and death. Side by side always. I’ve done this with all of my children. I have watched and followed deaths lead. 

I have watched as they have felt brutal blows from death. Seemingly unfair and I’ve watched them time and time again call upon the early, more gentle  learnings for direction, solace and grounding. To have known death intimately with their very own hands has connected them to it. It is a great mystery but not an enigma to them. 

May we remember to parent along side of Mother Nature and the cycles of life. 

May we remember to make time to take her lead when it is called for and have the wisdom to know when that is. 

May we hear her whispers and take heed upon her direction. 

May we remember that we are in fact a small part of a dream so much bigger that us and enliven this glorious, soul nourishing connection within our children. 

In honour of the beautiful Fruit Dove. Our gentle teacher. 

Enjoy this article? You may also like to read A Mothers Infinite Body Intelligence by Erica Angelica

Our mornings are now with less injury, less mayhem & more creative play

Our mornings are now with less injury, less mayhem & more creative play

I don’t know if it’s universal or whether it’s the result of 4 kids, one house and many agendas, but trying to cook breakfast and keep a toddler joyous in the morning whilst the other parent squeezes in a half hour meditation has been a pretty complicated task in our home.

There are 6 breakfasts to cook with different bread requirements, cups of tea to brew, blenders going, pans sizzling and a budget exhaust fan drowning out the sweet song of the birds. Then there is a hungry toddler asking questions from afar which sound like a muffled flute. Questions like can we go get ice cream or why is that stone there or something else ridiculously hilariously ludicrously cute. And I always want the response to be a considered one, which amongst the toast pop and kettle whistle can be challenging!

To maintain a calm peaceful presence amongst all that is quite the job!! Why doesn’t everyone make their own breakfast does cross my mind but when we try that it’s like a game of gridiron in a toilet cubicle…. one person cooking results in less injury and only one frustrated human not many.

Thankfully I figured out a neat little plan a couple weeks back that literally gives us the 20 minutes we need to get the majority of breakfast prepared and cooking. We may need to pause a moment or two to cut string or sticky tape a drawn gorilla head onto a paddle pop stick, but other than that our toddler is happily entertained by the night before creations and the exploration and play they entice.

The creations you ask? Well, what I decided to do was create little worlds whilst our toddler is getting put to bed so that when she arises in the morning she comes out to new scenes, new worlds, new activities to do. This morning there were puppy’s having a tea party with a pirate, a cave with a sandpit and squirrels in it, a jump over pillow trampoline set-up and a few other oddities.

Tomorrow she might find the tea party table transformed into a musical instrument station and the cave moved inside and now a stamping station set up with paper, ink and stamps. New scenes to explore and entice her into engagement.

So some of these scenes last 3 minutes, some last 30 seconds and some last a whole 15 minutes or more. But more often than not breakfast is ready and she is still playing away in her own imaginative little world amongst the last night’s creations.

I’ve actually found joy in creating the stations now. Setting up cute little treasures along the way, putting colored water in the teapot, making simple little changes which excite her and when I visualize her little face I am finding it excites me too! Double win and beats just cleaning up after toddler tornado.  This still gets done but use to be all that happened in those going to sleep time moments. Cleaning up has actually become a creative and fun daily adventure.

As we’ve taken this path of cleaning up/ preparing for play the little cutey is clearly joyous even at the sight of the scenes.

“Oh look! Everything’s amazing!” Has been voiced numerous times, alongside “oooooooooh” and “yaaay!” Any of those little expressions have made my heart smile and assisted her mind to drop into the imaginative realm and start creating. Ooh yeh, I like it!

How long will this last? I’m not really sure. For now I’m set in doing it after seeing the joyous rewards for her and the calm relaxed space we get to cook breakfast in each and every morning now.

This might be common sense to many or maybe this inspires you dear reader. Either way I hope you are also able to drink the joy of your little folk through little-planned worlds and activities that they can dive their imagination into. Learning through play and nurturing their exploratory mind. Aho!

The Endangered Wildness

The Endangered Wildness

Wildness could be seen as endangered these days.

We, as a culture have become so civilised, so deeply separated from the wilderness, that the call within us has becoming but a whisper.
We are warned as children against dangers of the wild and reminded of the importance of staying “safe”.
We are congratulated for our conforming and chastised for our challenging.
We are cautioned against straying off the path and given accolades for perfecting the well-trodden ways.
But what are the effects on our truest selves? The parts of us that we are born with. The deeply intuitive, strongly connected and profoundly wise soul that yearns to be expressed here in the 3D.
Can we explore and exhibit the unique gifts we arrive here on earth within the current culture?
I say yes. I say as parents it is a rebellious act to enliven and nurture the wildness within our children and ourselves.
To quite literally take them off the well-trodden path into the mysteries and the power that awaits us in the untamed nature.

To allow the wilderness to challenge them to step or leap beyond their comfort zone. To see a child’s face navigating this moment is truly, a most wondrous soul touching sight.

To feed their body a healthy dose of food that has grown wild to remind it of its truth. It nourishes not only their body but their soul.
It is a defiant stance against the domesticated human to acknowledge the unseen as you pass through the forest. To feel inter-dimensionally as you journey along creek beds in silence except the chattering and giggles of children.  To speak your gratefulness to the waters, the rocks and the trees. To open heartedly observe the animals in their wild state and allow it to permeate your being, for children feel this. They are watching you watch and feel the great mystery.
And in their own unique way they will watch and feel too.
And they will know this dance. This deeply fulfilling dance with something so much bigger than themselves with a love so intense it bring tears.
They will know this.
It will be a vital part of who they are. Embedded in their being.
Connection to country.
Connection to our Mother Earth.
Connection to the unseen.
Connection to family
Connection to our intuitive self. Connection to love.

This voice will whisper to them in their most challenging, darkest moments and it will sing to them, inviting them back home to themselves.

The wildness in us is our greatest ally.
Our greatest gift.
Our deepest truth.

Building Self-esteem and Power Over the External by Paul Crebar

Building Self-esteem and Power Over the External by Paul Crebar

My play with our toddler at the moment consists of several repeated imaginative scenarios.

Some options this last week have included;
~ We are visiting the shops (with me as the car or bus driver), we are buying bits and pieces and picking people up on the way.
~ We are going on adventures to the circus where we can jump, swing and sing songs.
~ We are making cakes or cupcakes, baking them, sharing them with people / dolls – and finding them absolutely delicious ofcourse!

Now, no matter how much I try and stay present with the imaginative play, often my mind jumps to what I shall make for dinner, and I miss a crucial piece of information. This then has my 3-year-old toddler looking at me with wide eyes and a look of disdain.
“Oh sorry sorry! I missed that” I say. She informs me again about what is happening, where my doll is meant to go or say and then looks at me again with wide eyes as if saying “Got it?!?”
I just nod my head as if I am responding to a high school teacher who caught me drawing funny pictures instead of listening to a lesson at hand.

So I get it correct this time and do my best to watch on as she moves and mumbles, then bumbles away then back again. I associate it to being in really thick fog whilst driving and trying your best to see the road and stay on track. You sort of know where it is but it’s also hard to see and grasp what’s 15m ahead. You know that feeling – extreme concentration needed!

The scenario of our play sometimes repeats, but in my reflection it changes more than repeating. New people enter the bus, sometimes people we don’t know, we go to different shops and buy different things. Sometimes she is late for circus and I’m meant to start while she waits outside the bedroom. When ‘the class’ has started she makes her entrance with her baby strapped to her – late and proud. Hilarious! It’s ever changing. It’s ever evolving.

Creating inner worlds and managing the external world

So while she creates worlds and bosses me (her external environment) around within her world, I get yelled at (when she’s tired), I get hugged, I get looked at with joy and also frustration (when I tune out for 3 seconds) and I ask myself what is actually happening here?

I recently read this quote by Joesph Chilton Pearce which summed it up beautifully for me “All children want to do is play in worlds they create and project on their external world. If allowed to do that, they are constantly building new neural structures for creating internal worlds and projecting them on their external world. And they build up an enormous self-esteem and feeling of power over the external world through their own capacities.”.

I am constantly trying to remember this!  This control over the external world that is part of her play I need to remember is actually wonderful – although hard to digest at times with the looks of disdain from a cute as little 3 year old!

The gift of the safe space to explore

I see this as a far-reaching gift really – a gift for this little spark of beauty. Being able to be present with her play, bossed around within her imaginative internal world and being there to create that safe space of exploration through my simple presence.

That’s all she is really asking for right? For me (or any of us) to be there so she can feel safe to push the boundaries of her internal worlds. To create new ways inside her mind so when she is faced with a similar scenario in her next 80-90 years of life she may already have the solution, or at least the flexibility to find one. These fleeting moments of imaginative play are powerful future-shapers in a world of magic and madness, beauty and mayhem.

May these moments support her to forever thrive.

Darkness in Motherhood

Darkness in Motherhood

A searing pain that is left unspoken but strongly felt in the hearts and wombs of The Mother, night walking in the deep recesses of her being.

This culture of ours offers scraps to the Mother whose child is wandering off into the abyss. Wandering off into the realms of shadows. Wandering into the palms of those who would not have their best interests at heart.  

Our culture turns a blind eye to such things pretending that this existed anywhere but here. She is left only with the desperate prayer upon her heart.  

This culture offers limited time to the grieving mother who cannot hold her dear child close to heart. Who cannot stroke the hair of her most beloved creation while they drift off to sleep for they have drifted beyond this world into the unseen. Beyond her touch.

And as the pain sears into her heart every waking moment she is offered limited time to voice this grief. This unspeakable pain.  For after a while it is uncomfortable to those unfamiliar with the terrain of grief. Of whole bodied yearning for what one cannot have. And this culture speaks not of such things and she is left with the desperate prayer upon her heart.  

This culture offers condescending chit-chat to the mothers whose journey into the underworld of birth has left her scared. As she struggles through trauma unspoken she is left alone flailing to comprehend what just happened. Her body is screaming to be heard and yet she is met with words opposite in nature. This culture tells her she is lucky to have a baby at all.

Journeys into the underworlds

And so she stuffs these overwhelming emotions down into the pit of her gut and carries on. She loses a part of herself. She is smashed into a million pieces but culture does not speak of such things. Only of glowing and happy new mothers and so, she is left in the wee hours of the night with only a prayer upon her heart.  

This culture offers nothing to the mother who can only mother part-time. As though when the calendar clicks over her heart somehow closes. It cares not of how her heart aches when she watches her beloved children parented in a way completely different to her heart’s yearnings by others. It speaks to her of fairness and while her head understands her heart doesn’t not. She yearns to hold them close. The pain can be searing and she is left with a helpless prayer upon her heart.  

Darkness of her conditioning

This culture offers judgement of the mother battling with the darkness of her conditioning. When the trauma of her own past takes her over and she acts from this place, guilt and regret become her constant companion. She craves compassion and knowledge so she may crawl out of this hole but she must search far and wide for this. She is left with a hopeful prayer upon her heart.

The path less travelled

This culture offers shame to those mothers daring to walk the path less traveled. As she takes uncertain steps toward creating a new story for her children she can be met with feverish stories laced in fear about what happens when one ventures off this well-worn path we call normality. And so as she questions her deeply intuitive self she is left with a confused question upon her heart.

There is a darkness in the collective Mother. A searing pain felt by us all. The journey into the underworld is taken in differing forms by each and every one of us. We walk this journey and very sobering wisdoms are gleaned from these realms. Ones that bring us standing nose to nose with the truth of humanity, feeling it’s very breath upon our face.

And just when the pain feels so searing, the discomfort so intense, we think be cannot stand it, we realise we must expand and walk on.

We must continue anyway. Head held high. In spite of all that is happening, we must find it within ourselves to push through and rebirth ourselves over and over again.

How utterly amazing we are.

This is wisdom.
True wisdom.
Humble wisdom.
May we take just a moment to bow down at the feet of this wisdom…
Of these women.
Everyday women.
And see, see the truth of what lies within a mother who takes this journey seriously.
Who courageously learns from the underworld.
Who feels into the depths of her pain and allows it change her at the very core of her being.

Who no longer yearns to be the maiden but has expanded and expanded herself to embody what it truly means to be “The Mother.”

She has alchemized her pain into wisdom.
Just as our Mother Earth does.

These are the women who ought to be making decisions on our children’s education, on the health care of our youth,  and all else that shapes our children.
Our future.
Alongside great men who’ve had the courage to do the same.
This is the future I long to see.
Where the darkness is not only valued and supported.
But spoken about.
Where the feminine is remembered and honored in all her shades from the lightness to the dark and back again.

May all mothers remember and value the power of the alchemist inside her. 

Presents For Presence

Presents For Presence

As we walk, she gives me gifts and it reminds me of the magic that surrounds me and ensures my meditation comes in many glorious forms. 

Walking through the forest I imagine all small children’s attention can be caught by the bite-size pieces of natural exquisiteness. Intrigued they pick them up and may share them with those who are walking along side. Simple and natural beauty and a presence of what is right there in front of them. A truly soulful place of being.

This was my recent experience. Myself and my three-year-old daughter walked along just a few days ago. My mind was very busy and not present. Focused on mental challenges of the past few weeks and concerns of the year ahead. I was occupied by the thoughts and stories which were figures of a worried imagination. It wasn’t just that day though it had been some days going around and around in circles. Needless to say it was pointless mindless chatter with little relevance to what I was actually doing.

So as we walked, and my mind did the loop to loop, my daughter would stop every now and again and hand me a little piece of nature. A bright red petal of a flowering tree first, then a palm berry, and then a clipping of a wattle that we just passed.

Staying connected and present through play

“Presents for you papa” she would say as she handed them over. The first one went straight through my mind with little consideration. Not recognising the words presents and presence can be one and the same here. But by the third present she had caught my presence and bought me back to the present moment of bush-dawdling. The present moment where we were finding natural simple beauty in our path and honouring it, taking a moment to marvel at the intricacy of natures creations.

What I often find when I spend time in her presence is that she truly does require my presence and what a glorious exercise that is. Painting, pretending to be a shop owner, colouring squiggles, bus driving and many more activities that I find myself engaged in become a time to meditate. To stay connected to the game, stay mindful of the exploration, stay aware of the learning unfolding and brain developing of this little, ridiculously cute being who chose me to be one of her guides.

So where I’m getting too is the first three years of parenthood has made meditating sitting on a cushion with my eyes closed more challenging than it use to be. Tiredness, busyness and cleaning have risen up the ladder to be trophy winners of most time spent.

Meditation can come in many forms right?

But in moments like this when my daughter bought me back to the present through her presents I was reminded my meditation can happen on a daily basis in many ways. When I tune into the games, thoughts, ideas and magical play I am involved in with my daughter it does require my full presence. To be immersed in play for 20 or 30 minutes, and I mean fully immersed in an imaginative or creative game is a form of meditation that is not only benefiting me but also providing her with a safe space to explore, learn and develop her brain! It’s a double win!

I’m grateful for those moments. I can only speak for myself but I’m sure many parents find it a juggle to cook, clean, work, exercise and also connect with your little teachers. Meditation is about presence right – with your breath, with your movements and thankfully with the play you can undertake with your child. No doubt your mind will wander, but just bring it back, back to being a lively and active fruit shop owner, or a jolly horn beeping arm waving bus driver. Bring it back to the simple, creative and often hilarious free imaginative play available to you.

I remind myself it will be gone in the future soon, she’ll be off with her friends or something of that nature, so for now I want to read this over and over so I take every moment I can to………..um…… medi-play. Meditating through play, and medicating my mind! I might put that on my wall.

A Mothers Infinite Body Intelligence

A Mothers Infinite Body Intelligence

Paul and I made a pact that we would alternate giving each other some time in the mornings to meditate/ stretch/ be creative / plan or whatever we feel we need now that our babe is getting older.

I decided I would do meditations and whenever I went down the internet wouldn’t work or something would make that difficult so one day I just closed my eyes and started to go through the different parts of my body and verbally check in with it. To love it up or ask why it is hurting.

I had no expectations but I was so amazed to find out how profound it was!!

It was as though my body said “Ahhhh finally!! ” and poured its heart out to me through feelings, images and words.
To say I’ve expected my body to perform well beyond its capacity in the last few years is a major understatement!

A lot of tears were shed and a new respect for the intelligence of my body is now realised.

So I wanted to share with you want unfolded this particular day as an example. I closed my eyes and began to allow myself to relax. I kind of speak to my body as though it’s another being.

So what I was saying was like ” it’s safe now to relax. You’ve got time and space to let go and talk to me. I’m here and I’m listening etc”

Once I had relaxed I tuned into the parts of me that were in pain.

I began with my lower back. Breathing into it and giving it complete presence.

It could feel it relax and then I asked why it is tense. Images came in my mind of me rushing around busy only tending to the never-ending list of the outside world and the feeling in my lower back intensified.

Then the words “More presence needed”

So I realised that to begin understanding the pain in my back more presence is needed in everything I do.

Yep, great got it. Mum of four! Homeschooling!  No surprises there!

Next, I went to my upper chest.

My lungs and chest have been really suffering from experiencing huge grief in my life of last year but this felt different so I tuned in to it and spoke kindly letting it know I was here and listening.

Suddenly my mind was filled with images that move my very soul.
Women. Oracles. Witches. Seers. Priestesses. Plant women.
Tears flowed.
My heart ached.

It ached for a time when that was me. When visions and rituals were my life. When I was so entwined with the unseen, the earth and stars that I was neither here or there.
I was in betwixt.

When the plants spoke to us all and we listened!

When the air was static with so much magic that all the worlds merged and blended.

My heart knows that life.
It yearns for that life.
And yet…..
Here I am.
Mother of four in a very different world indeed to that of my heart.

Don’t get me wrong there is plenty of magic but it can feel clunky at times. It’s a journey to get there in this chaotic reality of a Mum.
Awakening yes!

Our women are very much getting restless with our current culture.

But still, I found myself sobbing. Feeling so far away from the visions of my heart and soul.

And then a beautiful vision made its way into my being. The one below.

At first, I saw these women in paintings that do something to me when I gaze upon them. They move me in unexplainable ways.

And then slowly emerged the infinity symbol being drawn with these women in one side.
On the other side was the word Motherhood.

And it kept being drawn from one to the other, one to the other, until I began to understand.

These women are us. They are what we once were, still are and will be, yet in a different form.

We mastered these ways in the mountains, caves, and caverns. On our own and in sacred groups.

We were burned, strangled and killed.
And now we return. In a new way.
We return as The Mother.

And so, is it a possibility to weave the wisdom gleaned from these lives gone by into modern life as a Mother?

Because you see, as I see it, our culture seems to see mothers in two ways.

Either dull and boring or a maiden who happens to have children.

What if I owned both the Magic Woman inside me and The mother I am and they became one.
This sat so nicely with me. This feels like my truth. This is the Visionary Mother I have been writing about and dreaming of. The tears began to settle and my heart felt more at ease. My chest more relaxed.

A lot made more sense and I went on to have a most beautiful day.

All from simply talking to myself.

No wonder it has been made strange or an insane thing to do by those that would like us to remain asleep.

For our bodies remember.
Our bodies know the truth.
Our bodies are powerful.
Our bodies speak to us.

May we remember who we truly are and what we are here to do.
May we take heed and listen to the intelligence of our bodies once more.



Harvest and then create with intention:
🍃Handcrafted fresh Motherwort Vinegar – Saturday 8 September, 2018
🍃Handcrafted fresh Mugwort body oil – Saturday 6 October, 2018
🍃Handcrafted Motherhood ritual smoke bundle – Saturday 10 November, 2018
ALL SESSIONS: 10am – 1pm @ Wilsons Creek
$50 per session
Book for all three & receive 20% off plus my soon to be released e-book “Plants as Elders – The Witchcraft of Motherhood | My journey with Motherwort’ as my gift to you.
Bookings essential as strictly limited spaces.
All materials required and plants are supplied, and either harvested on-site by you or acquired from organic distributors.
You are invited to come and tap into your ancestral connections.
Activating the part of you that remembers the ways of the wise woman.
It resides in our blood and bone.
It is within all of nature.
Humble, invisible and powerful ways that foremothers have practiced in their homes for all of time.
When using these magics we strengthen our abilities to connect into the subtle realms. This is an unsurpassed skill of motherhood.
To be sensitive enough to communicate beyond words is how we truly understand our children.
Plants can teach us this.
– In this workshop, we will be working with the herb and the spirit of the different plants to create your own healing tools for Motherhood.
– You will have the opportunity to connect with and harvest some or all of those plants willing to be a part of your co-creation.
-You will experience connecting with the plant Being for the purpose of understanding tangible challenges we face as mothers.
– You will take home a creation of your own doing. All jars/ plants/ oils / vinegars supplied.
-You will experience this with a small group of mothers in deep connection.
-You will have the opportunity to reawaken or strengthen the part of yourself that exists in other realms and apply that to motherhood and simple, powerful kitchen magic.
-You will be reminded of a time when these ways were revered and were commonplace.
-You will learn of how women sealed these secrets within the fabric of nature and themselves for a time when it was safe to reawaken these ways.
Now is that time.
Herbal tea and cake provided at each session.
To confirm your booking, deposit into below account with your name and selected workshop date.
PR and ES Crebar
BSB 722744
Acc 100104409


Join us at Renew Fest, May 18-20 in Mullumbimby. We are proudly presenting as part of the Humanity Renewal POD. Get your tickets online at www.renewfest.org.au or if you live locally to the Byron Shire Santos Organics has discounted tickets for locals.

The last 20 years of science has revealed a very powerful truth for the health of our youth. By ensuring one key inherent relationship is maintained we establish the strongest preventive against our society’s most common adolescent health challenges and maximize the opportunity for lifelong thriving.

This 30 minute workshop will share key facts, powerful insights, and some helpful tools to utilize with our children and youth.

Medicine Drum Making with Umaji Creations & Luminous Youth

Medicine Drum Making with Umaji Creations & Luminous Youth

Umaji Creations join us for a wonderful creative adventure into the making of a vegan medicine drum.

Gabe has been drum making for as long as he can remember, first being inspired to upcycle things as a child. He tells the story of the realisation he had when he realised ‘junk’ could be turned into wonderful instruments and creations just like these medicine drums which are on sale locally for over $100. They are the real deal – high quality, recycled material and they sound super.

Limited places for this workshop.
$47 per drum maker.
Bookings essential.


Our inspiration

It really struck me strongly when a few years back I heard Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee speak about how bringing ritual back into our culture will create a greater, stronger and more real connection with the spirit of our earth. For ourselves and our youth. A connection that will naturally inspire us to take better care of her and look at the true majesticness she shares with us…….. and this has inspired our seasonal sharings here in Mullumbimby at Mullumbimby Community Gardens every 6 weeks.

Erica and I love sharing these intention filled, powerful, fun and playful rituals with the youth (& their parents) of our community. We get inspired by taking wisdom from old traditions, incorporating some circus play, alongside plant spirit wisdom (and a healthy dose of magic!) and give parents and their youth an opportunity to share, connect and play together. Something that assists in building stronger connections and relationships for our families and our community.

We do so as we hope this empowers our youth to carry these understanding of what lies beyond this 3D reality into their daily life. And also carry the wisdom shared into their life forever more!

Empower our youth

We wish to empower them to hold strong the beautiful connection they have with nature – as children do -, allowing them to recognise, listen and respond to the earth’s callings….and their own inner callings too. Allowing them to be true to themselves and the fire inside their heart, looking beyond the limitations society or culture may weave into their world – allowing them to be exactly who their heart desires – and to encourage them to use the hidden and powerful magic of plants, intention, ritual and spirituality to assist them on their path.

Our youth truly are powerful little magicians and we love encouraging them to recognise this! Please join us community, we love sharing this stuff and we hope you enjoy experiencing it with us! Tickets available online.




No I’m not pregnant
This is the home of my babies.
The cauldron in which they grew 
The round curve that speaks of my visits between the realms to grow and collect my children. Some of them made it earthside. Some did not.
This belly that moves when I walk speaks of ecstasy and pain.
It is my guru. Teaching me to love beyond my culturalisation.
Asking me to look beyond the praise I was raised with.
The idolisation of the “perfect body.” I mean what even is that??
It speaks of motherhood.
The stage in which our culture would prefer I would not have visual signs of.
A culture that would congratulate me feverishly if I lost my belly quickly after giving birth so that I went back to how I was.
That I looked more like the maiden I was.
And I’ve done this.
A few times.
And this time I didn’t.
I sat with her.
This soft jelly like glorious tummy.
I sat with the hate I felt.
I listened to the horrific words that went through my thoughts. I really listened. Wow! They were mean. Really mean.
Confusing at times because I can never recall thinking these cruel thoughts about other women?
I sat with them noticing that they actually were not my thoughts but what I was taught to think by culture.
And slowly very slowly they got quieter.
As I reminded myself of the powerful beautiful being I am. That I am a creator. That life has formed within me. That this roundness was the place where the feminine resides.
That being a mother was an absolute gift.
Suddenly those words thoughts and feels lost their sting.
I saw them for what they were. Brainwashing by a culture that makes billions of dollars off me wanting to be a maiden my whole life. Period!
Why should I want to hide my place of glory.
Why would the man I love not revere the womb in which his child came from.
Unless he were under that same delusion. It’s been a journey of me being really honest with myself. An experiment of sorts. It’s been about embracing the calling of the “mother” for me.
About embracing change and difference. That throughout my journey in life I will look different a million times. The seasons and cycles of life flow through me. I am them and they are me.
Sometimes those mean thought come back and I feel that sting. I love them away.
Motherhood is a sacred journey and she should never be asked to hide herself.
May she express herself how she will through me and may I remember to give her the reverence she deserves.

Erica Nettle-Chik

Beltane Seasonal Celebration | Monday 30th October

Beltane Seasonal Celebration | Monday 30th October

Beltane, the time of fertility!

Mullum S.E.E.D & Luminous Youth invite you to celebrate with us. A seasonally inspired ritual based workshop to inspire connection with self, other and this beautiful earth for youth and their parents.

Facilitated by Paul Crebar & Erica Nettle-Chik.


Monday 30th October, 4pm – 5:30pm at Mullumbimby Community Gardens.


Pre-sale tickets only at www.luminousyouth.com


$15 per child.
Limited to 20 spaces.


This ritual based workshop is for parents or grandparents and their children. It is based on Germanic pagan fertility rituals that spread throughout Sweden, Germany and the UK.


The Beltane Seasonal Celebration will allow us as individuals, families and as a community to:


• Recognise the importance and power of ritual
• Understand the hidden energy of plants and how to incorporate them into our daily lives – focusing on using the energy carried in the seed or carrot, cucumber and strawberry.
• Experience the century-old ritual ‘dance’ using the maypole and the meaning behind it
• Blend and balance the masculine and feminine energy of ourselves and our community for healthy ‘fertility’ in ourselves, our gardens, our projects and our spiritual path
• Set intentions for a project/learning/aspect of life that we want to bring productivity to & embed this into the land where we reside
• Learn or deepen our understanding about practices to strengthen our internal fire
• Learn or deepen our understanding about practices to strengthen our connection with the earth.

We are excited to inspire our community to use the wisdom of plants, the essence of the season and the love of community to create magic and honour this seasonal transition. All welcome to join us!


Empathy Building – Youth Empowerment Workshop

Empathy Building – Youth Empowerment Workshop

We welcome you and your youth to seed love inside Cambodian communities at our upcoming event – dedicated to building empathy within our community with real world outcomes!

This event is for all youth and their parents. To deepen our gratitude for what we have and share what we can with those less fortunate than ourselves.

This workshop will delve into understanding how lucky we are here in the Byron Shire through positive reinforcement of all we have. Paul will tell humorous story of his experiences building and working in schools in rural Sikkim, India to highlight how the joy of giving he experienced changed his life and how eggs and silk scarves were equal to the greatest gifts in the world. It will also provide an opportunity for our youth to make gifts and messages of love to rural Cambodian children – which will include giving kids a set of colour pencils – more many their first ever!)Further to this this event is a fundraiser to support Jenny Blyth (author of Down to Earth Birth and Birth Work) to return to Cambodia to continue training midwives, healthworkers, district trainers and obstetricians.

Jenny will gift our creations to these children when she visits.

Laos is one of the poorest countries in the world, with a high maternal and infant mortality rate. Luang Prabang province is situated in the north of Laos where it is mountainous and populated with a great number of diverse ethnicities. Most villagers live at subsistence level.

A training was delivered in January and enthusiastically received, with heartfelt requests to return and do a follow-up training in December this year.

The follow up would entail visiting Luang Prabang Province in Northern Laos once again, and each of the district hospitals at Chomphet & Phonesay, where we would facilitate a 3-day workshop with participants coming in from their outlying villages.

Afterwards, Jenny and crew will travel to the most remote villages within each district to gain better insight into the way of life there, and the problems they face. (One young health worker who came from a remote outreach area, rode for 12 hours on a motorbike with her husband and baby to attend the workshop in Luang Prabang.)

This work saves lives, changes lives and empowers women throughout the country.

Jenny hopes to raise $10,000 and we are going to help her! 100% of proceeds from this event will go towards Jenny’s crowdfunding campaign.

This will cover bringing participants together and accommodating and feeding them for the duration of training at a district level. This will also cover the cost of a Laos translator, buy supplies and relevant equipment and education materials, and cover accommodation expenses.

Jenny is also in the process of publishing a booklet based on the posters we created for the initial training. This picture booklet with simple reminders and skills will become a template for use in any other culture.

They have also been invited to do further trainings within Laos, so are seeing this project as a long term one.

For our youth we are utilising this opportunity for them to have fun and create felt bags for the children of Cambodia which Jenny will take with her. The workshop will involve the youth sewing these bags together and placing prayers into the bag. Jenny has advised us this will be received with great gratitude and love and we look forward to sharing this time with you.

Pre-purchase your ‘Bag Making Kit’ online today and join us Friday October 27, 4:00pm – 5:30pm at Mullumbimby Community Gardens. If you are unable to attend the Friday a bag can still be purchased and picked up and returned from Santos Organics Mullumbimby on Tuesdays or Wednesdays. Please detail this when purchasing your ‘Bag Making Kit’. Instructions will be provided.

Heralding in the approaching Spring | Youth (& Parent!) Empowerment Workshop

Heralding in the approaching Spring | Youth (& Parent!) Empowerment Workshop

‘Heralding the Approaching Spring’
Youth (& Parent!) Empowerment Workshop

A connective ritual based workshop for parents and their youth.

Facilitated by Paul Crebar & Erica Nettle-Chik

Tuesday August 1, 3:30pm – 5pm at Mullumbimby Community Gardens.

Pre-sale tickets only.
Limited to 12 spaces.
$10 per child.

This ritual based workshop is for parents or grandparents and their children. It is based on the Gaelic Imbolc festival which is about welcoming in spring.

‘Heralding the Approaching Spring’ will allow us as individuals, families and as a community to:

  • recognise the importance and power of ritual
  • understand the hidden energy of plants and how to incorporate them into our daily lives
  • clear away the ‘old’ & dust ourselves off from the darkness of winter using the assistance of ritual and specific plants
  • set intentions for fresh starts and renewal supported by the energy of specific plants
  • learn or deepen our understanding about practices to strengthen our ‘sun’ energy.
  • learn or deepen our understanding about practices to strengthen our connection with the earth
  • build an energetic imprint to send intentions to parents and children across the globe

We are excited to be able to offer our love of plants and the earth to our community, and look forward to encouraging a stronger sense of connection to self, other and the earth through this workshop.

This workshop is proudly supported by Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond Radio.
Mondays 11am-12pm on Bay FM.




Frederick Leboyer, author of ‘Birth Without Violence’ died recently at the beautiful age of 98. This post is entirely inspired by his wonderful gift to the world written in the 1970’s.

When Erica and I spoke about getting pregnant there were some very misperceived perceptions I had about birth. The movies I had seen throughout my childhood and 20’s made it out to be a terrifyingly painful, almost violent experience for the mother and the baby. Was this really what it had to be?

With Erica’s guidance I was handed Frederick Leboyer’s book ‘Birth Without Violence.’ It’s not a long book, actually it’s quite short but it was definitely one of, if not the most influential book I read about birth.

‘Birth Without Violence’ was the first book to express that babies are born complete human beings with the ability to experience a full range of emotions. First published in 1974, it revolutionized the way we perceive the process of birth, urging us to consider the birth from the infant’s point of view. So powerful to do so and continues to challenge the current industrialised birthing system that has become our societies norm.

“Why must a child emerge from the quiet darkness of the womb into a blaze of blinding light and loud voices? Why must an infant take its first breath in terror, hanging upside down as its vulnerable spine is jerked straight? Why must the infant be separated from its mother after spending nine months inside her nourishing body?”  Wow, so many questions were raised. So many new concepts to consider for this soon to be father!

This book definitely put my views of birth into a new light. How did I want our baby to enter the world? What did I want her first experiences to be? They are very powerful questions and ones that we as parents have full control of (in most cases). I totally took a step back and put myself in my baby’s shoes and by-gosh did I want it to be very different from the movies I had seen and my initial understanding about birth.

For any father wishing to take a deeper look at birth options for their incoming child, I would highly recommend reading this book. It is definitely part of the reason why, i can 100% confirm that myself and Erica gave our little human a most warm, beautiful and non-confronting entry into this big wild and often misunderstood world.

You can purchase the book here:

Adolescence! The Awkward Age? or The Age of Magnificence? – Thursday 29 June 7pm – 9pm

Adolescence! The Awkward Age? or The Age of Magnificence? – Thursday 29 June 7pm – 9pm

Thursday 29 June

7:00pm – 9:00pm

Coorabell Hall, Coolamon Scenic Drive, Coorabell

$22.50 pre sale, $30 on the door | Limited Tix

How elders can guide adolescents through the turbulence – A public workshop by Robin Grille

Strictly ADULTS only, no children to attend

This presentation is for parents, grandparents and teachers of adolescents – or of soon-to-be adolescents. Although it can be an exciting and transformative life-stage, adolescence can also be full of anguish, chaos and peril. It is not unusual for parents and elders to feel helpless, afraid and disconnected from their young.

Robin Grille – Sydney psychologist and internationally acclaimed author – will share empowering, compassionate and leading-edge information that will help you to better understand your teenaged (and twenty-something!) children. You will learn some practical communication skills for connecting with, supporting and if necessary confronting your young ones. Last but not least, you will find validation and support for the incredibly challenging role of being an elder, role model and guide for our youth.

Topics will include:

  • The evolutionary purpose of this distinct developmental stage
  • Why behaviour can seem ‘crazy’ at this time of life
  • The unique vulnerabilities of this stage
  • The life-long strengths that can be developed at this stage
  • The amazing changes that take place in the adolescent’s brain
  • Understand the devastating impact of shame – and what helps to heal it
  • How to unleash the mobilising power of intrinsic motivation
  • Vocational healing – how this works
  • How adolescent passion can lead to peace and success
  • How our honest self-disclosure can act as a guide
  • Practical skills for communicating and connecting with adolescents
  • How you can tap your own adolescent experiences as a source of wisdom and insight
  • How your adolescent chid is growing you up!

Please bring your questions, as there will be time for Q&A.


Tea and after dinner snacks available.

Proudly supported by Pregnancy Birth & Beyond Media.
Tune in on Bay FM, Mondays 11am – 12pm with Sally Cusack, Annalee Atia and Lara Martin. 



I wanted to share the inner child journey I took at Renew fest this year led by the amazing Robin Grille. I didn’t share on the day as I had to sit with it for a bit. Or maybe I was avoiding because I got “busy” after that and ended up with really intense hayfever, something I had a lot as a child and not as an adult. Interesting.

We were asked to choose a recurring situation that comes up between you and one of your children that you would like more understanding on.

So I chose one with my eldest.

He is choosing ways of living that are not necessarily how I would like to see him live. They are ways of life I have chosen against. Not massive, just enough to press my buttons and have reoccurring conversations and some arguments about. It brings up strong feelings in me. And I often find myself thinking about it during the night.

We were asked to feel into it. To name it and the emotions and that come with it.

I felt annoyed, angry powerless and afraid ( actually really afraid). I felt so unheard by him.

What was our self talk?

Mine fluctuated from “after all I’ve done! After all I’ve given him. I raised him to be smarter than this. I gave him a strong set of morals and now THIS is how he chooses to spend his time.” And ” Oh god I’m a bad mother and person to not be able to accept him for who he is”

Round and round it goes with slight variations just to liven things up.

Robin then asks “Is this familiar?

Where did you learn this?”

BAM!!! There I was as a child. Early primary school age.

I see many situations. Me crying my eyes out desperately wishing the adults around me would understand that school just wasn’t for me. That I just didn’t feel understood there on any level. That what they were teaching had NO relevance to the life I was here to live.

The things that interested me where NOT discussed at school by anyone. Not the kids or the adults. I wanted to research, talk and daydream about other planets, inter dimensional beings, the Loch Ness monster ( yep I was obsessed) And feelings. Why did nobody discuss feelings? I felt like I was in a bad dream for years. I wanted to learn and hear about these things because they were my world. That’s what I knew and wanted to know more about it.

My mum was a single mum and pretty damn cool I must say. She was definitely challenging the status quo back then. So I liked hanging with her. Reading her books. Shirley McClain ect ( yep I adored “Out on a Limb” at 10 years old.) and all the parenting books she had I devoured.

So it was nobody in particular that made me feel so completely powerless and infuriated that nobody could hear my inner screams. It was the culture and the times that I had chosen to be born into.

I felt afraid and anxious a lot of the time that I was going to mess up because NOTHING came naturally that I would be praised for at school. I knew it would definitely not be safe to express my true self as a few times I did, like when some kids saw me hiding in the library reading a book on UFOs, let’s just say It wasn’t pretty.

I eventually worked out how to fit in. But it came at a cost because it required I abandon my true self. And by the time I was 15 I had severe depression that was diagnosed as a hereditary chemical imbalance ( absolute bullshit) and “fixed” with drugs. While the drugs stopped my suicidal thoughts they did nothing to address the actual reason I was depressed in the first place.

Woooaaahhh I hadn’t thought about all that stuff for years.

And the feelings were so fresh!

I felt pretty emotional.

I was sure I’d left all of that behind me a long time ago?!!!

There were a few other steps like what I wished someone had done for me and a few others which were so amazing and healing.

But the clencher for me was “How can I translate that into my life now?

How does it apply to now?”

All of a sudden I could see what was happening on so many levels. Firstly my child was giving me the opportunity to heal these feelings by pressing on that spot in me. By choosing to be different. By choosing to unashamedly express who he is! By speaking out when I suggest otherwise!

That was really freaking me out. I wanted to shut him up. I wanted to protect him but from what? It was my own unresolved pain that was hidden away with in me.

I could see the correlation so strongly.

I was also able to see how as an adult this has weirdly, for better or worse, become my driving force that is only becoming stronger and stronger.

To protect and in fact celebrate children’s inner worlds. Their unique gifts fascinate me.

It’s time for me to process and release the pain so that Instead of reacting to my own unresolved feelings when he speaks, I may truly hear him and understand that he is trying to express himself. That I can respect his choices even when they differ from mine. And if I forget and I do react I know what’s happening and I can communicate an apology that comes from a place of truth.

The upside! The reason, if there’s such a thing, is that I have an unwavering passion for giving youth that don’t fit in to the existing systems and paradigms a different choice. To give the parents of these kids an understanding to what their kids might be feeling to inspire respect of all youth as equals. To introduce the idea that we are born amazing not bad. That we are born encoded with gifts to be discovered and nurtured and we the adults,are to protect and honour those gifts. Because a world where we are all living our true purpose in joy would be a very different world indeed.

I learn so much from my children about myself.

Robin Grille is exceptional. His inner child journey is simple, clear and powerful.

I’m always so amazed, no matter how many times it happens, that somehow as crazy as it sounds my children are my teachers. Like truly!!

Life is a mirror and they are mirroring what is within us and sometimes ( or a lot) we may miss the gift in that.

But on that Saturday morning I didn’t miss it. I got it!!!! Loud and clear. And even though I made myself sick avoiding facing that part of me, when I finally did I see how absolutely beautiful and gifted that little girl was. How wise she was and how she is me and Now I walk a little taller.

Deep gratitude to Robin Grille and that little girl who has waited ever so patiently to be be heard and respected. I hear you.

Now lets do what we came here to do.



Would you like to feel inspired?

Would you like to feel and understand just how important you are?

Would you like to be part of the first sustainability festival that has finally acknowledged the value, raising our youth has on the future of this planet.

Renew Fest 2017 has found some of the best speakers in the country to come and share a deeper understanding of how we as parents and carers of the youth hold the keys to creating fundamental change in our societies future. Robin Grille (author of “Parenting for a peaceful world” and “Heart to Heart parenting )will be heading the team and sharing his profoundly deep understanding of this topic in detail. He will present two keynote speeches, you will be invited to participate in two workshops and he will be on two panels. Thats 8 hours of Robin Grille!!!!!!!!!! Believe me when i say it will be a game changer!!!

Tickets on sale $75 for a full weekend of mind blowing amazingness!! Truly!!!

Or visit www.luminousyouth.com and sign up to our news letter to go in the draw to win 2 weekend passes. Drawn April 12th.

So excited!!!

Elder Motherwort shares her mumma magic

Elder Motherwort shares her mumma magic

And the motherwort , the mother of mothers begins to hear the call inward.

As the autumn mornings begin to weave her soft magic across the land she begins to let herself begin to rest. She has nourished and given , standing strong and mighty.

It is time now to let go. To rest. To gather the knowledge that can only be gathered from the deep dark void.

Because she travels with the cycles she knows and trusts that she will return from her journey reborn with much to share.

She whispers to me to remember this. To know as a woman there is a time to shine. A time to die. A time to journey and a time to be reborn over and over and over again.

Don’t be fooled by societies obsession with youth and achievement she says. For the true raw magic, the time you will feel most alive is in the dying…… I bloody love motherwort!

Teenage Energy is awesome!

Teenage Energy is awesome!

So we went to see Xiuhtezcalt Martinez from Earth Guardians the other night. He is a 16yr old Aztec hip hop singer/ speaker on the cutting edge of youth activism.

I’m not like the worlds biggest hip hop fan as you can imagine. But poetry yes. So I’m watching him weave his magik as he does and I could feel this familiar feeling from a long forgotten part of myself.

I felt a bit emotional. So I closed my eyes and tuned into the energy of the room specifically the music and the youth dancing. And wow!!! Bam!!! That energy!!!

Can you remember it?!!!

That absolutely powerful all encompassing energy teenagers have when they gather. It is strong. Really STRONG!! An untapped energy source perhaps. And it was being led my Xiuhtezcalt who is about coming together to create a world the we CHOOSE. Not what we are GIven. But what we wish to create.

He reminded us that great things start small. To invest our time doing creative projects that lead us to the world we want. He is a powerhouse. A elder in a teenage body. It’s s beautiful thing.

Tuning in i remembered feeling that but being told I was childish. When we grow up life is hard. That I just didn’t understand yet. Well bullshit!!! I hope he spreads his message far and wide.

I hope teenagers ( and adults ) use this energy they are blessed with to create new worlds. To bravely stare down the old. Let’s support our #luminousyouth to express themselves fully and unabashedly !!! Your born with your gifts inside you like a seed.

If you haven’t allowed them to bloom. NOW IS THE TIME!!! And #nextgeneration tune in now!!!

Don’t get sucked in to the system. You are beautiful and powerful. Allow your gifts to blossom. #luminousyouth are backing you all the way!!!

Waking up to a slap in the face | Co-sleeping | Fatherhood | Luminous Youth

Waking up to a slap in the face | Co-sleeping | Fatherhood | Luminous Youth

I can’t remember another time in my life when I was slapped in the face. I didn’t really know it would happen now when I had my first child when we decided that co-sleeping would be part of our night-time adventures! For sure a warm welcome into fatherhood! But dammit, I loved it. It has become my favourite way to wake up. My almost 1 year old daughter slapping me in the face – who would have thought! Part of our conscious parenting experience that I am very grateful for!

Welcome to fatherhood and welcome to co-sleeping

The bed moves a little and then tap tap with her open palm on my cheek!  I open my eyes and there she is. Wide eyed and big smiled beaming out of her heart. “It’s another day papa! Another beautiful day!”

What better way to start my day. The inherent joy of being alive being beamed straight at me from my daughter! Wooohooo!!

Co-sleeping was a new concept to me when I met Erica. I guess I had always assumed there was a babies room, with babies stuff and a cot. That’s what I had always seen so I thought that’s what was done. But thankfully that all changed. When I met Erica her children were still co-sleeping at the ages of 6 and 8.

When I became part of the family, the kids peacefully shuffled over to the other side of Erica. In a few years they had their own beds and then a few years on one decided she wanted her own room. Off she went and occupied her designated space by choice. The youngest decided that when our baby came along, he too would be better off in his own bed and own room. And so it was. Choices were made, orders were unnecessary.

Creating a new conscious parenting story for my life

Our baby has slept with us for 346 days today and I am so grateful for it. She has not had to cry it out abandoned in another room. She has not had to feel these intense feelings. I thought ‘crying it out’ was an experience that came with fatherhood. Thankfully this was only a story.

A massive smile and tapping and chattering straight after is often how I get woken up these days. I start my day with a ‘Wow, how friggin lucky I am” with the love being expressed warming my heart. The words are still mumbo jumbo and that itself is damn cute in itself!

If you have thought about co-sleeping as an option, you could look at the huge amount of benefits for the child as well. But this little post is all about my selfish joys of being woken up with the best welcome a father could ever have.

Want to know more?

Parents interested co-sleeping should read this article . If you would like to know why co-sleeping is becoming more popular here is a research article worth exploring.


Perfect Imperfection

Perfect Imperfection

Families are like quilts. Lives pieced together, stitched with smiles and tears, coloured with memories and bound by love”  ~ Maxine Meiklejohn

I saw my 11 yr old daughter looking at our tree with such pride in her eyes. I to, love our crazy, funny christmas tree. Its a metaphor for our family life. A perfect reflection of our imperfection. To someone else it may look chaotic. As though someone has gotten the bag of decorations and thrown it at the tree. (which in actual fact. is a palm frond and  the decorations were carefully placed!) To others it may look unmatching and a conglomeration of different themes mashed together. There is Christmas stuff,  religious suff,  native american stuff,  a pirate, decadent glass love hearts,  faeries, recycled stuff,  new stuff and just random unrelated stuff like a hand knitted Lama finger puppet. Every single one of them has a past, a story, a meaning.

So yes it truly is a perfect representation of our family. Of our unorganised, messy haired, unshoed, clothes stained in mud, loving, expressive, unpredicatable and super fun family.  Of life.  Of a home where children (and adults) are free to create their own life.

Sometimes our life does feel like this tree looks.  Its can feel chaotic and unmatching and way too many things being crammed into one house. BUT it also feels alive! It feels as though its ever evolving into something completely different. There is learning going on left right and centre as well as debates, things being lost, cartwheels through the lounge room, paper planes above your head and giggles fill all of the corners. Its definitely NOT linear, or neat.

Some of the time I haven’t a clue what they are learning. I have to tap right in to deep wells of trust that all is unfolding perfectly. Some of the time it is as clear as day that they are learning things that blow my mind!!! Other times they are still. I’m learning to trust the breaks. That we all need to pause.

In this culture linear neatness is congratulated. But Im going with our Christmas tree, which in itself is hilarious because I don’t really even celebrate christmas. I much prefer summer solstice. Even so I am going to celebrate the art of allowing,  the art of individuality,  the art of finding peace in the chaos,  the art of appreciating things as they are and not trying to change or manipulate them to our own preference and most of all I am going to celebrate the art of LOVE! In all its imperfection and unpredictability.

I think that is just what the world needs right now….more messy christmas trees!

messy christmas tree

Byron Shire’s Luminous Youth Officially a Not-For-Profit

Byron Shire’s Luminous Youth Officially a Not-For-Profit

Hooray for today! Luminous Youth is now officially a not-for-profit charitable organisation. We are hospiced by Mullum S.E.E.D who we absolutely love!

Thanks to the great work and team behind Mullum S.E.E.D, Luminous Youth can now amplify our programs through funding opportunities and donations by those interested in being part of  and supporting a new-wave learning space for our community.

We are dedicated to providing a service that allows the youth of our community with experiences that are memorable and powerful in ensuring their connection to themselves and this earth is maintained for life. We know we can help facilitate their desired learning outcomes by drawing on experts in a range of fields and allowing an immersive learning experience to unfold.

Thanks to everyone who has supported us over the years. We look forward to a prosperous and powerful future facilitating our youth to empower themselves in making effective, thoughtful and fulfilling choices for their future!

Gifts for The Homeless of Mullumbimby Complete

Gifts for The Homeless of Mullumbimby Complete


Our latest event on Wednesday 7th December was a huge success with 40 Christmas gifts ready to be delivered to the Neighbourhood Centre for the homeless of Mullumbimby.

Around 20 youth attended the event aged 1 through to 15 and helped create practical gifts with messages filled with love

The event was very beautiful.

Thank you to all so much for coming and creating magic together.

What warms my heart the most is when I take a moment to look around and I see a rable of parents, dogs and kids of all ages. Some I know some I’ve only just met. Like some crazy beehive. I love that moment so much.

We made beautiful cards, upcycled bags, soap and wove heartfelt wishes of love and courage into our toothpaste.

May those without homes feel this when they use these gifts. May they know they are truly loved by their community.

Erica on Bay FM talking Plants, Parenting & Luminous Youth

Erica on Bay FM talking Plants, Parenting & Luminous Youth

Our founder, Erica will be on BayFM with Sally Cusack at 11am this Friday on the Pregnancy Birth and Beyond show; talking all things plants, birth and post birth care.

She will also be revealing some very exciting secrets about what Luminous Youth has been plotting away at for 2017!!!

Tune in and get up to date with the Byron Shire’s new-wave learning space launching the Luminous Village in 2017.

Creative Foundation Donate Services

Creative Foundation Donate Services

A big shout-out to Creative Foundation who have kindly donated a bunch of services to us to help make our movement even more powerful. We love what they do and thought best to spread the love because we know you will love it too!

Here is what Adam Collett from Creative Foundation has to share with us all.

Creative Foundation is an agency with a mission. Built to operate as a social enterprise, the vision came from a desire to support community projects and organisations with some of the creative and technological skills we’ve picked up over the years.

How does it work?

As an enterprise, we offer professional services such as branding, web development, graphic design, online video, illustration, strategic planning and more for companies and organisations that are seeking to make a difference in the world.

Here are a few of the websites we’ve launched this year:


We then devote as many resources as we can to offering in-kind donations to social groups and organisations who need it most.

To start, we are proud to be able to support programs such as:

Made With Love Project www.madewithloveproject.com
Luminous Youth Program www.luminousyouth.com
Seeds of Love International www.seedsoflove.com.au

We’re excited to watch this list grow massively in 2017, especially as we talk to colleges and youth organisations about our vision to partner student designers with social programs, as well as mentor youth in creative services while working together on community projects.

For more information visit www.creativefoundation.com.au

A different type of Christmas

A different type of Christmas

Christmas is an interesting time. It brings out the best and the worst in us. One thing that really triggers some of us at this time is the questions “Have you been good?” and “What are you GETTING?” These are habitually asked to our kids over and over again.

This communicated focus on consumerism erks some of us to no end. And asking a child “have you been good” is being manipulative and we will rant about this again in a future post.

Our youth should not be portrayed as “good” consumers through the questions we ask at Christmas time! A day that symbolises a great act of GIVING.

Soooo, we thought we would balance the scales. Of course receiving is super fun but so is GIVING!!!! We love watching our kids plotting away on secret little gifts for those not expecting to receive their creations of love. The excitement brings joy to our hearts!!

This video explains how Luminous Youth will get creative & have some fun GIVING to those who may not be receiving anything at this special time!! We hope that you will join us on Tuesday 6th December in Mullumbimby.

Thanks to Santos Organics and MiEco for your donations.

Magical Day with Elijah Ray

Magical Day with Elijah Ray

I am so deeply thankful for yesterday’s Luminous youth workshop with Elijah Ray. Years ago I sat I that exact spot and visioned this and many other things. I felt so strongly in my heart that the way to change the world is through our kids. Giving them opportunities to be inspired.

It seemed so ridiculous and far fetched. I was a mumma with three little bubbas.

Who was I??

But it happened. All these years later.

I planted a lemurian Quartz right where Elijahis sitting six years ago. NEVER under estimate what moves you. It IS your mission. Your responsibility to see it through. As always I learned so much. I find that. Do you?? That just when you reach “that place” you realise how you need to do it better lol. Thankful to all who made this happen.

Elijah Ray you are pure magik, you inspire me onward, Paul Crebar you are my love, my life, my future.

Suebee Fae I bloody love you and David Geitz for the forest house and to the kids!!!! The children!! You guys keep it real. You are my teachers and I bow to you all.

Love Erica.

Join us for an Immersive Sound Experience

Join us for an Immersive Sound Experience

We are back! And excited to announce the first of a series of surprises for the youth of our community. Join us for this ear and heart tantalizing experience Thursday 10th November with Elijah Ray.

Luminous Youth are excited to present ‘An Interactive Experience into Sound with Elijah Ray (Hawaii, United States) on Thursday 10th November, 3:45pm – 4:45pm. Please arrive at 3:30pm.

This event will immerse our youth in sound baths, rhythm fun, voice looping and a whole lot more ear & heart tantalising pleasure.

From a young age Elijah Ray knew it was his destiny to bring more light into this world through music. Elijah & The Band of Light’s music is a balm for the soul, the sound of sunshine, insanely positive and uplifting… It will get your feet tapping, your heart warm and your lips in a big joyful smile.

He brings his rhythm filled knowledge, his loop machine, his playful heart filled music and his love of illuminating the hearts of kids to this workshop for one special afternoon.

Travelling from festival to festival around the world is part of his current adventure and we are grateful to have him here in Byron Bay to present this live, active and immersive experience for our youth. Don’t miss out!

Bring: A water bottle & something to sit on (optional)
Cost: $10 per child

The time is now right…

The time is now right…

I wrote this blog long ago….

I’m not sure why i didn’t post it. Maybe the timing wasn’t quite right.

But I just read it and I felt like it was just what I needed to hear!!!

So these words and the emotion behind them are a gift from my heart to yours. May you see how intrinsically important and powerful our job as guardians of the next generation is!!!! May it be inspiration for all you parents and your respective journey’s!

Warmest and heartfelt blessings to you all – enjoy the blog here

xoxox Erica.

Fatherhood Circle for Raising Luminous Youth Begins in the Byron Shire

Fatherhood Circle for Raising Luminous Youth Begins in the Byron Shire

Having just had my first baby with Erica I definitely felt her pre-experiences gave me a lot of insight into what to expect. But I am one of the few who join an already existing family.

In most cases we men are thrown into a whole new world when we become fathers and everything changes. Often we enter this new stage of our life with little preparation nor a true understanding about the challenges that will arise and how to potentially navigate them.

There is definitely not one right answer, however, by calling on a network of conscious fathers in our community myself and others hope to create a connection point to inspire information sharing, open dialogue, wins and challenges so together we may present our youth with more centred, present, loving fathers and partners.

All are welcome for our monthly early morning meet-up. For more details go to www.luminousyouth.com/events


Don’t fool yourself

Don’t fool yourself

People often ask me what it is like to have a baby at 42 years old, 9 years after my last, my eldest being 14 years old.

“I feel like its a luxury actually” I answer.

I get some strange looks as its not the response they expect.

I read this post below by my beautiful friend Vinny Skulldali Shanti and it sums up why I feel like that.

I KNOW that each and every moment is to be cherished even the crappy hard ones. I KNOW how fast they grow up and spread their wings. I look across the room and see the proof! I can fully appreciate every cuddle i get. I treasure carrying her all day and snuggling up at night. I KNOW that many “professionals” tell you that this will spoil them IT DOESNT!!!!! IT DOESNT!!!! Treasure these little babes because they are just passing through.

My heart felt every word of Vinnys. She is a beautiful mumma and all round amazing funny loving human…Thanks for the reminder Vinny!!!!

From Vinny Skulidali Shanti:
“Don’t ever fool yourself completely that your children are yours to keep. Hold them close whilst they are small and love them deeply always. Breathe them in and appreciate their impact upon your being…and be prepared that their physical proximity to you is temporary….and when at the airport, smile, joke and tell stories to distract you both from the imminent leaving. Only once they are safely thru the departures gate and airside, may you sob your big, salty tears from your mouth and nose, snotting strange, clear, teary snot onto the clinically shiny floor, giving zero fucks about your appearance and not even wondering where you’ve been storing this volumous face-water until now. Stay there with your audience of uncomfortable onlookers for as long as it takes to dry out enough to drive yourself home. Then go on with your world with your heart ripped out. That’s your job. Do it well.

” You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable” ~ Kahil Gilbran

Woken by a Wise Plantain

Woken by a Wise Plantain

A wise plantain plant woke me in the middle of the night once to remind me that we really are what we eat.

“Quite literally ” she told me “when you eat a lot of me you become part plantain and take on aspects of me”.

I knew it was her due to something that occurred earlier that day.

I liken this to everything I ate and began to eat more and more wild food or weeds or gifts from Mother Earth, whatever you want to call it.

Less “tame” food and more “wild” food affected my intuitive self in a big way. I found the land and animals communicating very clearly with me as my energy wasn’t so foreign. I was more “a part” of this ecosystem. Many answers and visions came to me during that time that are coming to fruition now.

This is how I choose to do “plant medicine”.

It’s slower for sure. It’s more subtle yes. It’s nourishing and some of these guys do taste funny. But the connection is deep and profound. Any age can be a part of this ceremonial way of living and eating. I’ve had a little time away from this way of life. Moving and re-establishing my life. But I’ve been connecting again with my wise weedy friends and the visions are flowing and my heart is filling. The wild me has returned!!!

The Oldest Tradition on Earth

The Oldest Tradition on Earth

The wise women tradition is the oldest tradition on earth. It defies race, age and social status. The wise women work is invisible and powerful beyond measure. It is that of the creator and destroyer and everything in between. It is simple and heart centred work.

While her work is invisible it was once revered in times of harmony with our earth. In times before the written HIStory we learned at school, her powerful work kept us abundant and intelligent (not to be mistaken for intellectual).

But through HIStory she was hidden and shamed. A legacy that continues in our currant times.

Let us dig deep and remember the ways of the wise ones. It still lives in our bones and our blood.

In the important invisible work we do with plants, lovingly guiding our children, weaving words into the earth, cooking spells of Heath into our family meals and all of the many other things we do that our modern culture has tricked us into thinking are of no value. How clever and cunning they were to fool us out of our magik.

May we remember and may we have the courage to once again weave the invisible work of the wise woman into our lives. We are powerful mamas!!’ Artist: Unknown

We need to Raise Ourself in order to Raise Our Child!

We need to Raise Ourself in order to Raise Our Child!

This book has come up so much in my world lately so I’ve taken it as a sign I need to go back (it’s been about 8 yrs since I read it) and revisit “Raising our Children Raising Ourselves” by Naomi Aldort.

Having a new babe and being a bit sleep deprived has taken me a little off my parenting coarse at times and my heart is already smiling reading chapter one.

“If we want the future of humanity to look different to how it looks now, we need to allow our children to create it out of who they are, and not out of who we want them to be. Parenting is a path of maturation and growth if we dare to learn more and teach less. When you have the courage to stop defending the way you are, or the way your parents raised you, you can open up to the possibility that you are much greater and more magnificent and capable than you thought you were.” ~ Naomi Aldort

Naomi you touch me and remind me how to be the person I want to be. There is a great Luminous Youth interview too if anyone want to get the vibe but the book really does hit the spot!

Unstructured Creative Imaginative Play

Unstructured Creative Imaginative Play

The importance of unstructured creative imaginative play in nature is massively undervalued in our culture. A culture that praises busyness, unemotional adult behaviour, technology and outward achievements.

Remember getting totally into the zone as a kid where a whole other world was your friend. Where anything goes and epic ideas flow.

As a mumma when I hear my children chatting or singing away to themselves and can see them totally in their own world I do everything I can to protect that bubble. For inside that bubble is wisdom beyond measure. It’s a direct doorway to the other realms. The same place some of the best inventions, music, art and creations of our time have come from. It’s the same place us adults search so hard to find in ourselves and when, and if, we do allow ourselves to drop in we promise ourselves we must visit there more often.

If I had a wish it would be that all children were allowed to play here often. Everyday in fact!! That we were never encouraged to abandoned ourselves for the outer world.


Don’t forget those whispers, don’t forget your heart.

Don’t forget those whispers, don’t forget your heart.

It takes many dimensions to raise a child.

So mummas and papas don’t forget to slowdown and check in with your team. Your not alone on this journey. You have full support and backing from the unseen realms to bring all your child needs right into their sphere.

Trust the whispers. (as crazy as they sound!)

Trust your heart.

And most importantly trust your child.

Artist: Unknown

Creating Neural Pathways through Movement

Creating Neural Pathways through Movement

Can you spy the very little cute hand helping mine make tahini treats??

Yes, baby wearing is hard work but it’s benefits are massive!!

Movement is the main stimulus needed to create new peaceful neural pathways. Babies feel content and included in the “tribe” and learning is happening from the minute they are conceived NOT when they start formal education.

Babies are absolutely present, taking in all the smells, textures, visions, sounds, conversations and more than we know. Being a part of our everyday life in the forest with this wise little human brings us so much joy.

This little lady loved helping her brother cook afternoon tea rather than put aside to play with toys made of plastic. Lots of laughs and mess!!

Are you going slow enough to hear the ancient wisdom of children?

Are you going slow enough to hear the ancient wisdom of children?

The ancient wisdom of our children will only be heard by those with the intelligence to listen. It’s a slow dance and requires a more presence than merely listening to words. Slowing down to create space and opening the heart wide to feel and sense the purity of their souls, the lifetimes of lessons and the fierce love they are here to teach us.

Fatherhood Circle for Raising Luminous Youth Begins in the Byron Shire


Holy shit, that was a serious ride. I’ll get back to the lead up to the birth at another time but right now I want to just cut to the real deal. The real deal of birth. Of evolution. Of life. Of one human coming out of another human – right in front of your eyes. Yes, indeed, holy shit! A seriously amazing, beautiful, raw, incredibly gob-smacking adventure into the desire that lies within the human soul to continue it’s wild and whacky journey on this beautiful ever-giving planet.

This experience is certainly like no other and not one to be treated with anything but upmost respect, honour and appreciation. To my wife, Erica and all you mothers out there, past, present and future, hats off to you. You are powerful. You are mighty. You are a vessel of subsistence. The vessels of love that carries humanity onwards. Thank you, I love you.

So Erica tugged on my arm at 11:30pm with a gasping call of “it’s happening” and there I was. Having been asleep from her suggested “good idea” since 9pm, the force of nature was now in full swing. The sounding of mother earth harmonising out of Erica and into the stillness of our bedroom was like nothing else I had experienced. Loud. Primal. Powerful. The sounding of true, raw and honest human force. More beautiful than a sacred gong, more powerful that an oceans thunderous roar, and more piercing to every atom in the atmosphere that shook and resonated as she sung this primal resonance through her body and out into the universe.

At one point the sound became more of a scream, but only for a split second, when Erica said “No..” and returned the sounding back to the base of her spine, getting out of her head and back to what would benefit every women in labour, so I understand.

Erica was not to be silent, she was not to feel shy or nervous in her environment, she was not to worry whether anyone else could hear her or not. No, she was free. Free to do whatever was necessary to bring this human head out of the opening between her legs – how that actually happens still to this day, I am gobsmacked.

We consciously chose to have a home-birth, to ensure that Erica felt safe within her environment. I learnt through some talks I watched that if a birthing mother does not feel safe, her brain does not excrete with ease the necessary chemicals of which include oxytocin (the hormone of love), endorphins (hormones of pleasure and transcendence), and prolactin (the mothering hormone) that make the birthing continue at its necessary pace. In fact if the women does not feel safe, and her mind is fearful there is a chain of biological events in the body that prepare the body for flight and direct the muscles to freeze, or flee, which is definitely not want you want when a human head is trying to emerge out of a uterus. So my wife, not being a fan of hospitals chose to feel safe and sound at our home in the forest.

How did I feel about this home birth idea?

Shit scared to start, but we often fear what we don’t understand so I had to take some quiet contemplation to understand where this fear came from. I read some books, watch some birthing video’s and learnt what I should have learnt many many years ago. After all is birth not the most magnificent and amazing thing a human can do. Think about it, what have we created on this earth that even nearly compares to what a women’s body builds when she is developing another human form inside of her. Nothing even comes close. One human, creating another human inside their body without any thought whatsoever. Holy shit – its a miracle.  It’s an absolutely astounding miracle that the woman’s body knows how to do this. And we think the brain is clever – get real – the body is where it is at. The body is way more intelligent than the brain – I’m working on this everyday to stop my mind thinking it is all so wonderful and trying to once again understand the communication of my body and my heart. After all, science now tells us the hearts electromagnetic impulses are much stronger than the brains… so heart heart dear heart, how do I use you!

So what did I discover?

I discovered that I was led to believe that birthing is unsafe. I was led to believe that “medical professionals” are needed. I was led to believe that a women did not know how to birth and therefore she needed a doctor there to ensure she was doing everything right. I was led to believe that Erica and I should hand over our power. However this was all to be proven completely incorrect.

When I watched the pregnancy process unravel what I witnessed was a support network of women who believed in Erica’s ability to birth our baby come forth and connect with her. I witnessed “women’s business” conversations, massages, meditations, bodywork, books and sharings that to me were completely foreign and I didn’t even know existed. Like the information of a secret rites of passage passed down from generation to generation by words and action rather than textbooks and testing.  I mean women’s bodies create a brain, heart, lungs, arms, legs, complex vein systems and the list goes on – couldn’t a women’s body that has been fed love by her partner, fed support from those who’ve had this experience and fed the inherent millennial stored cellular wisdom of being a women, bring a baby earth side without a hospital setting?

When I thought about it deeply, yes I could feel safe and have trust that we could birth our baby at home, and so our decision was made.

So why do we fear birth so much?

Even that my brain couldn’t figure that out and I had to get out of my head and into my heart throughout this process, ensuring I kept the faith that her body knew exactly what to do. Holy shit it was scary, but her body did it. It birthed a human. A baby girl at 4:46am on January 6, 2016 at home.

We welcomed this little being into our arms. I sung her a song that I made up early in the pregnancy and sung throughout the pregnancy, and she looked intently into my eyes and just listened. My heart reached further around the earth than it ever had before and Erica’s energy flew higher than the clouds in the sky.

We lay in our bed for the next four hours, until we fell asleep, as rays of life from the glorious sunshine peeped past the edges of the blinds, arms wrapped around this new creature who was still residing within the fine realms of life in matter and life in spirit. Soaking in an energy of pure stillness and calm, of awe and beauty, of astonishment and happiness, just soaking in the most amazing experience that had become part of my life.

I felt a strong urge to ground her on this earth on day 2 or 3 i think it was, so I placed her bare little scrunchy feet on the dirt outside our back patio. I thought this earth that provides so much for us could, and would, also like to welcome her to her bosom of interconnected life. I must admit however I did go outside and get some of mother earth’s soil on day one and place it like the Indian culture do with bindi’s – smack bang in the middle of her third eye. Why so – i’m not too sure, it just felt like the right thing to do, and you gotta go with feelings when they are motivated by love and connection right?

So, this earth now had a new lover, a new carer, a new companion to create ripples of love out into the atmosphere with, and what a joy it was to see this first feet to earth connection for a proud new papa.

As the day passed and the one after that, and the one after that too, I repeatedly said to Erica how grateful I was that we chose to birth at home. We didn’t have to leave the house, we didn’t have to get in a car, we didn’t have to sign anything, or be told what the medical profession says should happen next. No, we could just soak in the magic of birth, in our home for as long as we desired.

This new human was to only experience a place of calm connected love for her first days and weeks in this world of many faces. There was no trauma, no stress, no crying for in fact weeks.  She only experienced being wrapped in a cocoon of love within our own house and our own welcoming arms.

For this, I am forever grateful. The impact this initial welcoming had for this new human and her neurological brain structure will never be known, but I’m positive it could not be any more love filled and peaceful.

Paul shares his feeling and expectations on becoming a father on Bay FM

Paul shares his feeling and expectations on becoming a father on Bay FM

Our Creative Director, Paul Crebar was interviewed by Sally Cusack on Bay FM just recently talking about what he expects fatherhood to be like.

We rarely get to hear the father’s side of the story and Paul brings an open and honest perspective on the challenges he expects, the unknowns he questions and a bit about his vision of how he wishes to play his new role as a father.

To listen click here.

The time is now right…


Please, please remember your worth.

Please take a moment to close your eyes,
feel into your heart,
and tap into the truth of just how powerful your job is as a game changer at this time in history.Can you feel it?Ooooohhh they have been so clever to down play the role of raising our youth.
But the youth are waking us up!
In the womb they whisper to our hearts,
As toddlers they stand strong in what they need,
As children their love is unbridled,
In the schools they rebel.Let us, the adults, just stop our overly busy “important” lives for just one moment, this moment, and feeeeel into what is happening here. What is being asked of us?We are the change makers being called to honour and assist the evolution of humanity.

This IS our mission.The names mum, dad, step-parent, grandparent, teacher, carer are playing down the truth.
If we could consciously birth our babies in peace,
If we could raise them in love with nature and all living things,
If we could support their natural unfolding and trust that their passions are messages from source itself,
If we could model courage and fearlessness,
If we could love them when our conditioning tells us they deserve it least,
If we could transparently and sincerely apologise when we mess up,
If we could laugh with them every day,
and most importantly if we could give all of this to ourselves,
Can you imagine the tidal wave of change that would wash over this planet?Can you begin to see just how important you are?
What a true activist you are?
Can you begin to imagine how much backing you have in the unseen worlds?I know how tired you get,
how busy you are,
how much you doubt yourself,
how hard you try with no thanks and zero recognition,
I see the tears you shed,
the frustration that wells up inside you,
your yearnings that go unfulfilled and unnoticed.But please, please know this,
your are deeply deeply appreciated,
you are backed 111% to create change,
You are “seen”
you are so so important,
and you have in your power the ability to create human beings that have not walked this earth for a long time.
When you are weary dear change maker take a moment to breath in the abundant energy that flows to us from the stars, the earth, the trees & plants, the water, the animals and know without a shadow of a doubt that your work as a conscious parent or carer of our next generation is some of the most important work on this planet and you are backed and loved more than you could ever imagine for a very simple reason…..IT IS TIME!

image by francehart

Last Minute Preparations for Sharing Extravaganza

Last Minute Preparations for Sharing Extravaganza

His last minute preparations for tomorrow’s big community seed/plant/food / skill/ knowledge sharing!! Jonah has potted up lots of goodness to share from his heart….ABUNDANCE THROUGH SHARING!!!!!

This very special event is part of the global movement towards Seed and Food Freedom to promote and raise awareness about living seed and living soil. The two things human’s can not do without, but which chemical agriculture companies are seeking to control.

On offer this event: seeds, plants, knowledge, skills, kids activities, a community picnic, live music and an open air-film.

This is a community event sponsored and supported by:
The Seed Savers Network, One Organic, Santos Organics, Travelling Flicks, Luminous Youth, Free Your Food, Down to Earth Produce & Services, Shapeshifter Sound Design, Future Feeders, Byron Region Food Sovereignty Network and more.

Hope to see you there. For more details click here

Xiuhtezcatl shows his luminousity and is changing the world!

Xiuhtezcatl shows his luminousity and is changing the world!

Youth ARE changing the world. They have come to do so. Whether we are ready or not, the paradigm is fundamentally changing. Ive known this would happen since i can remember and it feels so good to see it happening on so many different levels.

We loved hosting Xiuhtezcatl at Uplift and he continues to power forward. This is Xiuhtezcatl in a meeting with the Prime Minister of Bhutan and the head of the world bank Jim Yong Kim before the – GEF Investing in our Planet Conference.

But it doesnt have to look like this. We are all coded with a different mission. For some it is clear from the beginning for others it takes time and is more subtle. But as long as we are tuning into our own personal calling we are holding a vibration that is much needed for this shift to be smoother. It WILL happen, no question. But how smoothly is up to us!!

Tune in mummas, pappas, grandparents, carers and Luminous youth to your own unique code and BE it!! You’ve never been so supported to do so. Even when it doesn’t look that way. So many in the unseen worlds have your back!!!

Sending love from my heart to yours!!!

Ocean Protection & Seed Saving – What a combo!

Ocean Protection & Seed Saving – What a combo!

Gosh these seed saving gatherings just keep reinventing themselves into a better and more exciting experience to be a part of!!! Especially for the Luminous youth!!! Heaps of room to run and play at this event and a special guest coming just for us!!!
“Wantunaa Dreaming comes to join Byron Hinterland Seed Savers this weekend to co-create the next chapter of his magic children’s games to inspire positive changes to the way future generations care for and love this land. Sharing indigenous stories along the east coast of Australia, Wantungaa’s ‘We love Whales’ board game is a inspirational and educational tool. Now turning to the share the stories of the garden creatures to inspire the little folk of the community to grow more food and connect with the earth, come and enjoy his vibrancy, puppet magic and there will be the opportunity for families and us all to be part of creating his next gardening game. See you there ”
He’ll be doing puppetry, playing didgeridoo and who knows what else!!!!….

This is his website:

We Love Whales Gallery
Enjoy traveling with Rainbow Eagle and friends as they explore our beautiful ocean in search of meeting the friendly sea creatures that live amongst the ocean.



“There is a dance that only you know how to do.”

Do you remember your dance?

Or were you told it was wrong, perhaps a little too wild?

Did you spend your childhood cultivating, refining, laughing, playing with and getting to know your dance? Or were you too busy memorising the dances other told you were the “right” ones to learn?

When thinking of your dance, does it ignite something within you? Does it make your eyes ablaze with passion? Do you want to ACT just to bring this to the physical plain?

Or do you look for those feelings in others, perhaps on TV? Getting a slight hit of their passion, but deep down wishing you could create your own?

I wonder how many of us feel these things?

How many of us in our heart of hearts don’t intimately know ourselves and have stopped believing in the precious and unique dance living inside ourselves? My guess is most of us.

Why? How can we change that? How can we remember?

Heres how I see Planet Earth.

Imagine a beautiful, delicate tapestry that is ever evolving, wanting to keep recreating itself into a more and more beautiful existence. That each and every form on Earth is a thread of this. All perfect, unique and individual and together they create the whole image. It is important that each thread is different so they bring their part of the image to life.

Imagine if they all looked the same?

Each thread plays an important part of creating beauty…… and balance.

Can you see where I am going with this?

Today as a society we fill to the brim (from a heartbreakingly early age) our childrens’ lives with institutions and situations to teach them how to be. We have forgotten the very fundamental foundation of being human…that each and every last one of us is encoded with an important gift to the world. It is our magic. It is our medicine. It is what brings us alive! It is our responsibility to bring it to the physical realms from our dreams. To cultivate it, seek out facilitators and mentors to guide and inspire us and to always do the same for others seeking your wisdom. To pull your weight. To BE what you are here to be!

THIS I believe should be what any form of learning is based upon. BRINGING OUT WHAT IS WITHIN.

We are taught from the beginning that what is within is not important, wrong or something to be ashamed of. Shame is what keeps so many adults locked into a life that lacks vital force, vibrancy and doesn’t fully reflect our inner most gifts. It is no mystery really as to why this is….

We are told as children: when to eat, what to eat, where to play, when to play, if or if not what we choose to play is safe, when to be creative, how to write, what to read, a history that isn’t relevant to us and isn’t entirely true, whether we are good at something (even though we didn’t request an opinion), whether we are good enough to continue (regardless of whether we enjoy it or not), when to sleep, when to wake, what to wear, how to wear our hair, to wear shoes, to be afraid, to have “good” manners, that the “wild” woods are unsafe, not to run on cement, to not get dirty, to be “good”, bla bla blaaaa the list goes on!!!

What part of any of that reflects or nurtures our individuality? What part of any of that teaches us that we can trust ourselves?

“TRUST CHILDREN. Nothing could be more simple or more difficult. Difficult because to trust children we must first trust ourselves, and most of us were taught as children that we could not be trusted.” ~ John Holt

Each day there are so many opportunities to encourage our children’s inner trust. Feed a baby when she is hungry, instead of on a schedule. Trust his instincts when he wants to sleep with you and not in a dark room on his own. Facilitate your child’s own interests and passions. Be the one who says “Go for it!” If they want to wear board-shorts on a cold day, let them. We can have no idea how they feel or what the underlying reason is. Only hindsight grants us that wisdom.

Let them form their own deep relationship with mother nature, the very essence and material they are made of. Let them make mistakes. And where possible start this when they are young, when you are around to silently hold space for them to correct themselves. Even more importantly, notice what goes on inside yourself as you allow your child to learn naturally. Hear the inner voices but don’t react from them.

This is where the “spiritual journey of the parent” really kicks in!

Notice what comes up for YOU and own it.

I wonder how often we ask children to alter what they are choosing so that WE feel more comfortable, when instead we could simply sit with our discomfort and be the learner rather than the governor of someone else’s ability to choose? In the end the whole idea that children are the “learners” and that adults “know” seems preposterous!! This deeply engrained belief is the cornerstone of self doubt in many of us, and then slowly but surely our own dance fades away.

BUT……It never ever dies completely!!!!!

Please, please, parents and adults of the world remember your dance!

The Earth is waiting!!!

Find the courage to live it….little step by little step. Each step enlivens you and brings your gifts into the physical tapestry of life.

Each child who sees you living your passions courageously, despite your fears will do the same. When they watch you ACT from your heart in the face of adversity, they will do the same. When they watch you feel into your hardships, release, cry and then transmute them, they will do the same. When they see you laugh loudly, dance wildly and act from integrity, they will do the same.

And my god, can you imagine what a world we could create!!!



One of the most profound changes Ive noticed that has made its way into my life since becoming pregnant with my fourth child is the strength of my emotions. And I don’t use the word strength lightly. Grief, insecurity and loss have arisen like a tidal wave as well as bliss, a feeling of “all knowing” and love, deep deep love. Navigating that can be interesting to say the least.
A phrase Im hearing and reading often goes a little like this ” The emotions of pregnancy are JUST your hormones.”
My intuition ( that has also kicked in another level by the way ) screams a big NO!
Its waaaaaay more than that. Not only do hearing sentences like that leave me feeling completely unvalidated and unheard, it kind of insinuates that these emotions will just magically evaporate when the hormones “go away”.
I strongly believe mother nature does NOT mess up! That there is a divine and wise reason for all things. That when we take the time to open up to the purpose of each and every one of them we are privy to the wisdom it quietly or not so quietly offers us……hormones included. I also happen to see my journey as a mother and a partner as an opportunity for deep spiritual growth….ashram style ; )
So the latest scientific research is conclusively saying that all of the deep issues and trauma we hold in our cells and DNA is in fact passed onto our children. Generation to generation. ( Bruce Lipton, Robin Grille & Gabor Matè have very specific information on this subject ) So could this be an extremely wise plan and an awesome opportunity to face, understand, release and heal these “issues” or “emotions” that in life before pregnancy we were able to neatly tuck away?
Could it be that “hormones” trigger these to arise and offer us this last opportunity to not pass them down to the being growing inside our wombs? I feel yes…..The emotions that have strongly arisen within me are core issues of self worth that have been carried for generations. They are strong. I feel completely unable to ignore them.
Somedays I feel like Im on my knees and I wont ever get up. That I have absolutely no idea how to get through the waves of emotion and out the other side.
But heres the thing Im sure of.
111% positive of……Mother Nature does NOT mess up!! She is the ultimate mother. She is my mother and I trust her to hold me. I find space in the tears, the anger, the frustration to STOP, LISTEN and UNDERSTAND. It is powerful work! It is important work! For after all we are giving birth to the next generation.
We are powerful creators of the future! I see that parenthood can be a type of activism. “Be that change you wish to see in the world.”
Gandhi IMAGINE a world where all parents took radical self responsibility. Listened to the genuine deep emotions that arise during pregnancy and parenthood and gave them the reverence and respect of an honoured teacher. If we didn’t just brush it off as “just being hormonal” and weren’t too busy to hear the value.
IMAGINE if we didn’t pass this on to the growing life inside!
“Stop Learning, Start Thinking & Create”

“Stop Learning, Start Thinking & Create”

With every fibre of my being I feel like these kids are here to show us the way forward. To break the existing belief patterns on what it is to “learn”. Human consciousness IS evolving. It would be wise for us to listen to what these children have to say.

Jacob Barnett asks us to STOP LEARNING, START THINKING and then CREATE!!! He also asks us to think differently about Autism. In this article there is a story on him as well as a TED talk by Jacob himself. Both are excellent and although he seems a radical genius I believe the underlying message applies to us all!! CHANGE is coming through our YOUTH!!! Exciting!!

Go to article by clicking here 

One Youth Warriors Story | Xiuhtezcalt Martinez

One Youth Warriors Story | Xiuhtezcalt Martinez

Using the fieriness of a teenager, the wisdom of an elder, the courage of a warrior and the playfulness of a child Xiuhtezcalt Martinez of Earth Guardians is using his freedom of speech to inspire radical change in human consciousness. He isn’t wasting time waiting to be an adult to make a difference he knows the time is now! I love watching him using his gift to ignite humanity and to live so fully. It inspires me to do the same. If you watch I promise you will also. Sunday night love and Blessings Luminous Beings xoxoxoxox

Embracing, Understanding & Celebrating

Embracing, Understanding & Celebrating

Embracing, understanding and celebrating all of the different experiences that we have as human beings is a big part of what Luminous Youth is about. I loved connecting with Solreta Antaria and Peter Maxwell Slattery about reconnecting with our galactic selves and community in a very real and down to earth chat.
I wonder how may of us relate to this??
Sending so much love on this rainy monday night. Perfect video, snuggling weather.


Celebrating Nature Week Interview on Bay FM

Celebrating Nature Week Interview on Bay FM

“Too often we teach that it is more important to be able to spell & label correctly than it is to actually have an experience with the thing itself. It doesnt matter how you spell “happiness” if you dont EXPERIENCE it!!” ~Simon Paul Harrison

And “seed” and “garden” and “Love” for that matter!!

Im super excited to be chatting with Alice Moffett tomorrow morning on her radio show celebrating Nature Play week and the importance of having Mother Nature as a direct teacher and playmate.

Listen to tomorrows interview at 9am on

Robin Grille on ‘Resistance to the Attachment Message’

Robin Grille on ‘Resistance to the Attachment Message’

Cant put into words how much I love Robin Grilles work!! (He’s happens to be a pretty dam beautiful human also!! )This is such an important point in our transition back into natural attachment parenting of the next generation so we can help this planet by creating luminous youth. If you haven’t seen his work please check it out. It is beyond inspiring.

Womb life is for Writing

Womb life is for Writing

Ive been wanting to blog for so long but have been enjoying a really outward phase of Luminous Youth……now that I’m creating life in my womb and feeling more inward writing feels like a nourishing way to create and share my experiences raising Luminous Youth!!! Sending love and warm blessings out to each and every one of you….let me know what you think!!!!

Blog From Her

Kids who don’t fit in.

Kids who don’t fit in.


This is a subject particularly close to my heart. Children who do not fit into any of the existing systems. Discussing with with one of the worlds leading experts in this field whom happens to be the warmest, most open, hilarious and loving woman was such a pleasure. Thank you Mary Rodwell!


Play reflects life experiences

Play reflects life experiences

Play reflects life experiences.

When it is FREE and UNSTRUCTURED it can naturally be used as a way of processing life events that have been found challenging. A way of gaining back power. They are profoundly wiser than we realise. They know!!! They self heal!!

Thank you my amazing children for reminding me of this. I am humbled and inspired!!!

Language didn’t use to have rules

Language didn’t use to have rules

I really resonate with the work of Inelia Benz and particularly this article!! Growing up i found grammar extremely frustrating as it would take me out of my creative flow and made me self conscious of any mistakes I might make. I never feel the need to correct my children, or anyone for that matter, as when i am reading someone else’s words I am FEELING behind them for what their heart is trying to express to me. So dots and correct spelling mean very little when we come from that place. More freedom and creativity in our written expression I say!!!

For a great read click here.

‘The New Human’ Interview with Mary Rodwell

‘The New Human’ Interview with Mary Rodwell

Im sure your all feeling the energies of this Mercury Retrograde and all of the other amazing things that are going on in the stars above that seem to make us feel a little crazy but are ultimately for us to grow and learn.

One of the themes i have been seeing is that its TRUTH time. Masks off!!! Not that we are always hide our secrets on purpose but sometimes there are parts of ourselves that we have hidden so well out of protection and fear of being different.

So the timing of this offering could not be more perfect for me!

I have always had such a strong connection to our galactic family and learned early on that this was not something that was accepted or celebrated by most of society and so i learned to close that part of myself. While it served me well to look “normal” it was not beneficial AT ALL to my wellbeing. I have taken a long time to reopen this part of myself so that I can thrive.I love and relish with such joy when i see MANY children coming through with this connection intact and strong.

This is for them.

This is for us all.

May we open our minds (and hearts) and overcome our fears to listen to the children whose wisdom will lead us forward.

Warmest Blessings Luminous Family xxxooo

Parenting with Presence | Marion Rose | Luminous Youth

New moon Blessings!!!!

I think I missed some over Solstice period so I have two offerings this New moon to make up for it!!!!

This first is with the wonderful Marion Rose. She has written for many different publications including “Kindred” magazine and has inspired and helped us to understand the journey of parenthood or caring for others children as a deeply transformative spiritual opportunity.

Marion also has some online workshops very soon.

Check out the links under video for more info.

So thankful.

Enjoy and share far and wide!!!

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